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Sexylyn

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  • Birthday 08/02/1971

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  1. Wornsilver that makes a lot of sense. I do need to learn to open up. In the past I have had so many men play games and cheat. Now that I am with someone that is pretty much an open book and really nice I am questioning things. He has been nothing but sincere and I am happy. Thank you for your comment. I need to give it a 100% chance.
  2. Curious about dealing with STDs and swinging. I know that condoms are mandatory for intercourse. What about oral sex how do you protect yourself when the person wants to give or receive oral sex?
  3. I feel that closeness sometimes because we have been very open and communicating more than I ever have in a relationship. This forum has a been great help to me while starting this new chapter in my life. I find myself feeling attached to quickly to this man. He is treating me like a queen and telling me he wants me in his life permanently. Always teaching me new things and giving me a chance to act on my fantasies. It's intoxicating just want to protect myself. Thanks Goldco couple
  4. Well thanks to a few people here I am getting better with the lifestyle. My new relationship is different and moving fast. My guy and I talked about a lot of things and decided to do a few one on one dates. We went to a close friend of his birthday party and he introduced as his woman. Things are going fast but it's good. We went home to have great sex with just us two it was awesome. We did visit the club again and it went great. He was patient and we talked about what our plan would be that night. We played with a couple and we both had sex that night right next to each other. I understand why people enjoy the lifestyle it was a good feeling between us even though we were having sex with another person. Curious do you find people in the lifestyle love faster and harder ? He seems to be really into me and I like it. I am a little scared to be hurt.
  5. Yes we are talking more but I think he is still a little upset trying to get past it. I really think I misunderstood how everything works. I took things way to lightly and I wasn't taking this serious. I feel stupid because I now see that this requires a bond and I feel like I acted recklessly. By the relationship being new I didn't read his feelings for me combined with not understanding the lifestyle it was just a disaster. He has been a little withdrawn from me and I have tried to be patient. I would like it to work out with us so I am giving it time.
  6. Thanks everyone for the feedback. I did break his rules but we hadn't talked about solid rules. We have been talking and I did explain that he has to be patient with me. I guess it's hard starting a new relationship and setting rules for swinging. After we talked about it I think he was more upset that the guy wanted to talk to me after sex and hang around me. He felt I should have left the room faster than I did. I sense there was some jealousy so I will take note to be careful. I notice some guys there seem to want to pick you up even if they are with someone. I was only talking not trying to flirt but it came off that way. Again thanks everyone I am paying attention to all of your posts. Thanks
  7. I attended my second party it ended horribly. My new guy and I were getting along fine. We even spent time together one on one things were going great. Well at this party things were moving slow. One couple asked could I play with them and he seemed cool with it. Eventually another guy joined in and he wanted to have sex with me. I was caught up in the moment and I did it. He watched the whole time so I thought my partner was ok he said he was. Afterward he was furious and we argued all the way home. He is now speaking to me again we both apologized. How can I make sure we have solid rules and a good understanding so this doesn't happen again.
  8. Thank you all for responding truthfully just trying to see what I am getting into.
  9. I hope this isn't a dumb question!!! Are most swingers married and does it make the marriage stronger? Seems to be a lot more honesty and trust when you are in the lifestyle. I posted for the first time this week and I am new to swinging. My new relationship is moving fast because he feels I have all the qualities he wants and I am comfortable with the lifestyle. He is really amazed things went so well on first date but it felt very natural to me. So I am just curious. I see a large percent of couples are married, is this usually the case?
  10. New to swinging but my potential boyfriend has been in the lifestyle for years. We actually went to a club on our first date. He asked me at dinner if I would be interested. Well it was great and I was comfortable. Now he seems to really want a relationship with me is that normal. What should I expect. He explained I would always be first and he will take his time with me. Can a lasting relationship start this way?
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