My husband and I have been swinging for years. We play with couples and single guys. Last night we met a guy to play with who we've met once before. Previous time was great, we all had fun. I should say here I NEVER go unprotected with anyone other than my Husband. Last time we met this guy he wore a condom. Last night, we were still in foreplay, or so I thought. Things were getting hot, he flipped me over and stuck his cock in me, no protection, no permission. I pulled away and told him he shouldn't have done it then went to the bathroom. My hubby came in after me to see if I was ok. I wasn't- I was totally shocked and asked him to get rid of the guy, which he did and then we came home (we were in a hotel). I don't know what yo think, am I overreacting?