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PDXsoftcouple

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About PDXsoftcouple

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 09/28/1989

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    Vancouver, WA
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  1. We went on a Friday, and like I said, it was SLOW! We were lucky to find the couple we did.
  2. We had no idea we were going. It was a spur of the moment idea, and funny enough we had been to a Brazilian steakhouse for dinner (I ate about 20 steaks and had some drinks there too). Sounds like my dinner/drink combo before the club, then the couple of drinks at the club may have been to blame. I was feeling uncomfortable after the dinner. Thanks everyone! We are excited to explore again, just need to find time to get a sitter.
  3. Cards against Humanity is my favorite. You can make it into a strip game, where everytime you get a black card (usually the objective), you have to remove an article of clothing. this game is already full of sexual and taboo topics, so adding the strip part of it would be even more fun!
  4. Maybe bring it up to her if you two get drunk, as her inhibitions will be lowered and she'll be more open to discussing taboo things. Then rediscuss those things the next day when sober and see if she is receptive!
  5. Hello all, My wife and I, late 20s, had talked about swinging in the past, mostly just her wanting a threesome with a woman when we would go out drinking. We never acted on these talks, but it was a frequent enough sex talk that we researched swinging and found a club near us. So we had a date night planned, normal dinner and theater show, and after the show my wife said she wanted to dance. Not knowing any of the other local bars, I suggested we try the club with the boundaries that we wouldn't play with other couples, just watch and play with each other. We were dressed to the 9s for our date, so my wife was looking especially attractive in her short black dress. We got to the club, and the receptionist greeted us kindly, telling us we both look amazing, and that the club was a little "slow" tonight, so she would wave the membership fees and just charge us door fees. "Slow" was an understatement. There were no more than a dozen other couples there, and a few single males, but no real activity, and nobody really our age or close to it. We saw one couple close to our age, but being shy we didn't approach them, but watched as the female danced in the cage (no panties on, which was SO HOT!). My wife was aroused and intrigued by this, and I was expecting some jealousy from her for me watching as well, but she supported it. I only had a few drinks as I was driving home that night, but my wife had 4 or 5 strong drinks, when that couple approached us and chatted us up. They were nice, funny, female was gorgeous, the husband was semi attractive, although he had a large gut. They could tell we were new, and extremely nervous, so they sat us down and we all just talked for a few hours, while I slowly drank my drink and the other 3 had their drinks. As I said, it was a SLOW night, so we all decided to leave. My wife and I were disappointed, as we wanted to have sex with each other at the club, but we were going to head home anyway. The other couple invited us back to their hotel nearby to hang out. We decided to go for an hour as we had to get home. When we got there, their intentions were immediately clear, but they were not pushy. The other man didn't touch my wife, nor I his, but the girls kissed and she played with my wife's breasts while I was eating my wife out. Unfortunately, I guess I was nervous as I had a hard time getting/keeping an erection, and I finished quickly inside my wife once I did have sex with her. My wife seemed to want more, so we cleaned up, thanked them for the intro to swinging and exchanged numbers. My wife and I went home and had the most amazing sex for over 2 hours, myself cumming twice and my wife multiple times, with her talking about how she wants to watch me fuck another woman and enjoy her and the other woman at the same time. My wife currently has no interest in playing with other men, as she seems keen on exploring her bi sexuality. I am ok with this, and happy to watch her play with another woman, but I am leery of myself playing with another woman because I don't want my wife to get jealous (mind you she was drunk when talking about these fantasies). In my head, I'm sure she really does want to do all of the things she talked about, but the good wife/mother in her thinks it's not what she should do, and then I am hesitant as well because I had trouble getting an erection in front of the other couple. I wouldn't want to disappoint another woman or my wife should we decide to do this again. This other couple has invited us to their house for dinner, and we would like to go, but my work schedule has been hectic and we have to reschedule, not to mention some other issues in my wife's personal life. Thanks for the read, just wanted to share our first time/experience swinging. We both enjoyed it and definitely are open to doing things again, but we are not at the point of swapping spouses, just female/female action.
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