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bonemeal

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About bonemeal

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    Contributor
  • Birthday 02/12/1956

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    M. Male
  • Location
    Seattle Area
  • Interests
    Restoring old forgotten industrial machines, building electro-mechanical gadgets, metal fabrication, outdoors, gardening, fresh air, kind people, sexy ladies, hard cock.
  • Occupation
    Retired now working for my wife
  • Swinging Experience
    7 or so years
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx

Swinger Info

  • Favorite Club(s)
    New Horizons
  1. Thanks for the advise. Unfortunately we've looked at all the options. The problem is there is a history of cancer in her family on both sides so she is understandably reluctant to go through hormone treatment. Seems even the latest treatments can not claim 100% non-reactive. I'd rather have her around and worry free than take a chance.
  2. As far as restrictions, we talked briefly about this. She doesn't like the idea of me seeking out single females or males and I wouldn't be comfortable in that arrangement anyway. I also believe from our conversation that she preferred that I keep it to only one couple, possibly two. That is fine with me because I don't want most of my time consumed with hook-ups. At my age I don't have the energy or patients for that and I'm quite busy and happy with other interests. ViSex, I was in exactly the same situation you are in. After menopause, my wife lost most all of her sex drive and became REALLY sensitive down there so any kind of penetration was intolerable. I haven't penetrated her for about 6 years now. In order to have some kind of human sexual contact, about 2 or 3 times a year we would plan an evening of mutual masturbation and if I worked at it long enough she would orgasm. After a couple sessions of this it became apparent her heart just wasn't in it. I couldn't make her go through it anymore just to satisfy my needs. We talked about it, I had to tell her that I wasn't going to live out the rest of my life masturbating. Amazingly she understood and I proposed a solution that didn't seem to threaten her. At this point in my life I really wanted to explore my bi side, pretty taboo years ago so it was very infrequent and always incomplete. I really wasn't all that interested in intercourse with the couples wife but having the wife present seems to add a dimension of security for my wife and myself. I knew there were plenty of women out there that get very turned on watching two men so this is what I sought out. I think some of the reason she agreed was it takes all the pressure off of her and as long as she is kept in the loop and nothing is hidden from her she is somewhat settled with it. I know that certain aspects of it probably weigh on her. Not because I want sex with other people but probably because she feels failure for not being able to provide for me, not her fault.
  3. WOW, I'm sitting here "wincing" just reading this!! I'm no expert on the functions of human anatomy but it sounds like you need some Anti-Viagra. I can remember a time or two when my hard-on hurt that much but I had taken 100mg Viagra and 2.5 mg yohimbine. That stretched the skin pretty thin. Luckily it didn't last for 4 hours.
  4. Yes, Years back when my wife and I swung together we almost immediately hooked up with a married male guy who played by himself. That worked REALLY good for all three of us. I could easily have 3 or 4 orgasms over the course of about 3 hours. On the contrary when we tried couple/couple sex. I only met two women in the lifestyle I was reliably hard for so for the most part we stuck to MFM threesomes. Now that I recently re-entered the lifestyle as a single Bi-male I have been up front about what kind of couple will work for all. I want to play with her husband and she has to love watching, whatever happens beyond that is a bonus. Lucky for most I love giving oral to both sexes and that doesn't require a hard on. There seems to be plenty of mature couples out there that meet this profile.
  5. Hi Everyone, As some of you know by my introduction I am a married male who used to swing with my wife. We have been away from the lifestyle for about 15 years. recently she has given me permission to swing on my own with some restrictions. A lot has changed since I've grown older in that time. My sexuality has even changed and I'm finding that I want to explore my bi-side. My intention was to seek out a mature couple with a male that is also bi and wife who loves to watch. I'm really not all that interested in playing with the woman but am very turned on that she wants to see her husband and I stroking and sucking each other. Shortly after I placed my first ad I got a hit and an invite for meet and greet. I took my wife along to meet these folks so she would stay in the loop. All went well and we scheduled a future time to play at their condo. It had been a long long time since I played with anyone. We engaged in some "get to know each other talk for about 20 or 30 minutes and then made a move to the bedroom. The wife wanted to start out watching the men and I was eager. I didn't know how it would all go for me but I was unusually comfortable playing with his cock until it was hard. I was so hungry for his dick that I started deep throating almost immediately. This was really turning him on. He wanted to get into 69 position so we could suck each other. This was glorious! I could feel his wife's hand around my cock, guiding it into her husbands mouth. It was starting to get frantic, he was pumping in and out of my mouth, hitting the back of throat. I told him I wanted him to cum in my mouth and I was so turned on by the thought of it, as he was cumming I went down so far on his cock that my mouth was now around his balls. After he came down my throat I slowly let his cock slip out. As I watched it, it seemed like I was never going to see the end of it. I looked up and saw his wife masturbating like crazy. I reached over and placed a finger on her clit. I only worked it for about 15 seconds and she exploded. I gave her two more orgasms before she was spent. It was definitely one of the best sessions I can remember. I can't wait to get back over there. He told me I was a good cock sucker and that made me proud.
  6. Very common problem, I've tried to analyze this many times. I get hard with my wife ALL the time. I get SUPER hard with my wife when another man is introduced into the mix. but with other women I have a good erection probably only 30% of the time. I absolutely have to have a mental connection with the woman or there's a problem. Clubs are the WORST for me. One on one with a strange woman almost never works. I take Viagra, Yohimbine, DO NOT DRINK. it doesn't matter. If the brain is ready the penis will follow. For me, it's a matter of compartmentalizing my sexual function and trying to only be in situations that work for all involved.
  7. Not a dumb question. When my wife and I got into the lifestyle I'd say it was a very high % of married couples. Back then the lifestyle seemed to attract the over 40 crowd. Today I think it's much younger and maybe more singles. As far as making a marriage stronger? it had better be pretty strong before deciding to indulge in this type of recreation. We met many couples who probably shouldn't be doing this. There was a big misconception on my part before swinging that people in the lifestyle are well grounded, emotionally stable people with rock solid relationships, not always the case. It certainly can make a strong relationship stronger but it will also quickly turn a weak one into a disaster.
  8. Yes, As a testament I can say, even years after my wife and I stopped swinging together we still have two couples we've stayed in touch with as friends only and get together from time to time for just friendly family type company. We love these people even though we don't have sex with them anymore.
  9. Interesting this topic came up. As some of you read in my introduction, I am now a single M.Male back in the lifestyle with my wife's permission. When my wife and I swung several years back we started out with couples. I soon realized that the sight of my wife with another guy distracted my focus from the attention I needed to direct to his wife. It wasn't because I was uncomfortable with my wife screwing another guy, on the contrary, it was because watching my wife with another man seemed to turn me on even more that having another woman. Don't get me wrong, I did encounter wives that I was VERY attracted to and things worked great. BUT, I wanted to see my wife screwing another guy so much that we found MFM situations were actually the best sex for both my wife and I. I never knew I had a cuck side until we got into the lifestyle. Now that I recently got back into the lifestyle as a single M.Male my focus has changed. What I want now is to be that "other" guy for men who love the same thing I did and as a side benefit to explore my bi side. I am not after his wife, honestly, I truly want to see both of these people have great orgasms and I prefer they orgasm before I do because that is how my mind works best. Kind of my reward to myself for doing a good job I guess.
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