DoubleTeam

Thanks to everyone for the responses. No, it isn't. It is something we both have interest in but are worried about hurting what we have built together. That is why we are trying to learn all we can beforehand. Emotional issues abound. What if its better with someone else? What if you fall in love? What if, what if what if... Dealing with other emotional beings in one of their most primal/enlighted states is not something to take on lightly. At some point you just have to jump in or go home I guess.

15 years ago we had a few mutual encounters. We started talking about it seriously again 3-4 years ago. In the last few months we are getting to a point we feel we could move forward in action instead of words.

We are hoping this thread could be used for swing origin stories. If there is already a thread like this please let us know. Where you started and how you dealt with feeling. What you limits were and how they've changed. It may be alot to ask but it would be helpful to know how long you were together before swing and how long you've been doing it. Possibly some horror stories if you like. Anyone lost a relationship? We found this site while trying to get our act together. We both want to try but like many are having trouble with that first step. Hoping others stories could help us understand where to start.