Hi everyone, we are new to this but are both definitely very into the idea, specifically watching my wife with another man. She is bisexual and is also open to women and couples but we're trying to start somewhere. Our problem is this: Where do you find someone who is into the idea that is a normal respectful person. Friends are out for us because my wife is worried about awkwardness, losing friendships etc. and whenever we go online the responses we get are mostly either not truely interested or seem disgustingly juvenile and send a picture of "themselves" after about 8 seconds and ask if they can meet today. We are both so into this and don't want it to flame out because of frustration at it never happening? Is there a different site? Some better place to look? Please help. Thanks in advance.