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Thank you. So there was even no change after the first couple of times with a significantly bigger man? It genuinely honest to God makes no difference? Tightness is set and stretching is just a porn myth (bar childbirth)?

So from your personal experience, your wife has had sex with bigger men, and fully returned to 100% the same tightness as she had before?

This is a real hangup/massive insecurity of mine. I posted a similar topic a few years ago and I still struggle with this. I'm an average sized guy. If my wife has/had sex multiple times with men who are larger (specifically girthier) than me, will she feel looser as a result? Would she feel tighter if I had been her only partner to date? Or does it bounce back 100% every time? How many encounters with larger men would it take before she feels looser, or does every encounter take something away tightness wise? Ideally I'd love to hear that peoole here have wives who have been with much bigger guys, yet remain just as tight as they always were pre the big guys.

So say a week later, after her having sex with a large penis, noticeably bigger than yours, it's genuinely as though it never happened? She still feels tight to you, not even a sliver looser? And this is most people's experience?

So conclusion - You guys really sense no difference at all? The vagina still feels just as tight as before? Not even slightly less tight?

Thanks for all your answers guys. I do appreciate that psychological factors are far more important than the physiological issue I'm focusing on, I'm just being thorough. I think I'm right in saying that everyone here is in agreement - 2 or 3 encounters with a larger penis will 100% guaranteed not result in her feeling any looser to me? Like literally no doubt about it? I have to say I thought more people would actually have first hand experience of this issue!

So you would posit that even in cases like this, going forward a woman will eventually recalibrate to a smaller penis? That her vagina won't continue to enlarge to the size of the larger partner? That in a nutshell, she will eventually recalibrate, any looseness will pass and she will once again feel tight to the average sized penis?

I'm just a worrier I guess. Like obviously it's a big decision, I'm just looking for reassurance that if it doesn't work out everything will be as it was. So really you're saying, based on your own experience, that even just 2 or 3 encounters with larger men spaced apart would point blank not affect how tight she feels, not even a sliver? I'm just looking to put my mind at ease before jumping in!

Thanks for all your replies guys, much appreciated. I had actually seen that reddit post before posting here and yes it scared the crap out of me. Based on everything I've researched vaginas do seem to adapt to larger penises over time. I couldn't find much on going back to smaller penises after, besides that reddit post. I have read anecdotal evidence about guys who have felt their partners quite loose, who then find out that yes their previous partner had a larger member. I figured this forum would be the perfect place to ask as someone has surely experienced this exact scenario. So would you say based on your experience that your wife feels exactly as tight to you as she did before her encounters with larger partners?

Thanks for reply. It's just the physical really I'm focused on. Like if we try this and after a period of time either one of us decides we don't want to pursue it, I'd just like some reassurance that things will be remain exactly the same for us physically. I wouldn't like to think that a failed experiment could result in her feeling looser to me in future, or sex being less enjoyable for her. At the end of the day our relationship is our my number one focus. If we can get involved in the lifestyle and experience other people while still being able to maintain our own relationship and for sex between us to remain the same, then that would be ideal. I certain wouldn't like to go down the road of cuckolding though where she needs a larger penis to feel satisfied. Have you experienced this yourself where your partner has had encounters with more well endowed men? Has she felt any less tight to you, when it's just you and her together, away from the lifestyle?

Hi, I've been considering getting involved in the lifestyle but there's one major issue I'd like to clarify before making any decision - If my partner has sex with a well endowed man, even just 2 or 3 times spaced apart, will her vagina feel looser to me? I have an average sized penis and I'm just worried that if we were to try the lifestyle and after a couple of encounters decide it really wasn't for us, that her vagina's natural aroused state would widen, expecting a larger penis. I have read about women struggling with large penises initially but over time they adjust to their partner's increased size. I'm worried that a few encounters could change her and result in reduced enjoyment of sex between ourselves. I guess what I'm asking is will her vagina feel looser or stretched to me? And likewise, will I feel small and physically not as fulfilling to her? I presume people on this board will have experience of situations like this and would know firsthand whether my concerns are justified or whether it's complete nonsense. Thank you in advance.