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kinksandpinks last won the day on January 1 2017

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  • Birthday 07/24/1986

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    Married
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    north alabama
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    Both medical
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  1. Interesting. Since I had mine it seems I start to actually ejaculate sooner into the orgasm as opposed to before when I only ejaculated during the peak of the orgasm.
  2. Sounds like your guy thought this was a cuckold session. Personally, I would never want another man to cum inside my wife. It has been a Bart of role play but in reality that will not be happening. Just conversation should fix this for you but maybe it would be wise to stop the creampie sex. She probably thought you were so turned on and felt great that she did something to make you so horny that you could not contain yourself. As far as the guy being bigger... well, that is what you sign up for. I'm a smaller man myself and I fully understand that my wife will be getting some bigger dick. Not entirely sure how I'm going to do for his wife though
  3. My wife and I had our first experience last night. I have a thread about it on the appropriate board. We had discussed beforehand that we are good with oral sex and we did not hesitate to exchange oral with our playmates last night. It's pretty clear how oral sex is done safely in fellatio but cunnilingus is a different story. How do others perform oral sex while swapping. Is it just a no go for you? Do you use your best judgement? Is there some way of eating pussy protected that I'm not aware of? I love eating pussy and we had no doubts about the cleanliness of our playmates last night. We really do not want to rule out oral sex but we could use some advice from more experienced swingers.
  4. Yes she is correct. The GHB we played with when we were teenagers was either clandestine manufactured from floor stripper and some formulas of floor stripper had the effects when consumed directly. GHB is not the only compound that has these effects. There are many similar compounds. Strangely enough they stem from the body builder steroid scene because during normal sleep your body stops processing proteins and during GHB sleep it does not. They build muscle in their sleep. GHB is not as commonly used for sexual assault as most believe but it does happen. Most responsible dealers will strongly flavor and brightly color their compound or compound it onto blotter sheets similar to LSD to prevent it's use in sexual assault.
  5. It sounds more like ketamime to me. My wife and I are no strangers to drugs. We do not use them anymore. I don't even consume alcohol. I've been pretty firm with not playing with drug users. Alcohol and the green stuff is OK even though I don't smoke it. Absolutely no amphetamines, hard opioids, cocaine, or these new designer drugs! My biggest concern with these party drugs is that we live in an age where someone with a basic knowledge of chemistry and biology can create a compound and order it up in bulk from online labs from less regulated countries. These compounds are similar to the effects of known and more studied drugs with virtually unknown physiological effects. Serotonin poisoning is becoming more common because these compounds make their way into the drug trade masquerading as the real thing. I have had old friends who lost their lives this way. Not to mention the higher risk of disease from hard drug users. Now, we are all grown and your personal life is yours, but if you have track marks or your eyes are blasted, you are not playing with us and if that kind of activity is going on at a party we are out. If someone ever drugged me they best not ever let me find out or they will be spending the rest of their lives on pain medication.
  6. I'll chime in as a below average man. While I am very new to the LS, I have learned over the years that there is no sense in being insecure about it. Being below average is not going to stop you from playing but being insecure about it will. Most women seem to enjoy a variety of shapes and sizes. There are some women who only like big dicks. They enjoy the feeling of being filled to the max and that's ok. If a woman does not believe she will enjoy sex with me, it is fine because I'm not going to enjoy it if she's not. If she wants to try and it's not getting the job done then there are other ways to do it. It's no different than the fact that some ladies prefer clit stimulation over vaginally. Some ladies like anal and some do not. I find that the ones who only want big cock are in the minority and often times their husbands influence that. I understand that in the LS that my wife is going to fuck men with a bigger dick than me. I'm cool with that. We use toys that are bigger than me including some wearable toys for role play. Just have fun and enjoy yourself.
  7. My fears with MF contact with my wife never became a reality, which is a relief. In actually very glad she got to get some different dick. I feel like she deserves something different from time to time. I love to see her pleasure.
  8. We were indeed ready we are both very reasonably minded people. We tend to look at things objectively long before subjectively. Objectively, we wanted to fuck. Subjectively, it was a great experience. We are very happy with our decision.
  9. I typed out a reply earlier and forgot to push reply. Long story short, we did it. Boy did we do it. We both had a great time. I was 100% ok with seeing him and my wife..actually, I think I became interested in seeing it before my wife did doing it. We had a played with our own partners for a while then we decided to soft swap. As it turns out both of them are multi orgasmic. Well that makes things a little difficult actually. At one point my play partner said "you are going to have to get on top because I don't know if I can control myself." My wife then suggested a full swap. At that point everyone wanted to fuck. I was hesitant and said we should keep doing what we were doing. It was very clear that we all wanted to fuck each other. We did break the rule above and go full swap. We broke our own rule, but these things happen right? Neither of us feel bad, guilty, or jealous. I did have a very fleeting moment on the way home tonight. It was gone almost as soon as it came. We had a lot of fun. We believe we were built for this shit. We decided to become swingers in 2017 and we wasted no time before we went all the way.
  10. My wife and I are meeting our first couple tonight for drinks and we have booked a hotel. When we first chose to do this our original plan was to meet and have some same room fun with no swapping. Now it seems to have evolved into a soft swap meet. We have well established no fucking, but that has changed since the original plan of only contact with our partners. I'm a little nervous and I'm not entirely sure where the plan changed. My wife has been more active in talking with them, however it is in a kik group chat. I know the ladies had a private convo but my wife showed me the text of this conversation. Not sure if I should pump the breaks or go with the flow. I'm totally ok with FF contact but a little unsure of the MF contact with my wife. Though I am interested in the MF contact with our new friends. Time to compromise and discuss it after or is it time to pump the breaks.
  11. My biggest fear is that a guy will be forceful with my wife after she has said no and I'll have to fight a man naked. My wife does not play either... we grew up rough.. I think it would put an end to his swinging.
  12. A condom refresher probably wouldn't hurt. Also, her getting her tubes tied is her choice. We made the decision we made and we elected for me to get a simple day surgery rather than subject her to a fairly involved operation. For now though we will rely on condoms. Though given the choice between two guys we like one snipped and one not, we would chose the one snipped and still play safely.
  13. She has adverse reactions to birth control so any format is out of the question. Condoms are also a must but as we all know they can break. I'm just curious if men who have had the procedure are open about it as I plan to be. Naturally, we prefer without but we feel like getting close enough to a couple to know they are safe may mean that we are too close to them. Then there is the question of oral sex. Cunnilingus isn't exactly the easiest act to be safe in. Long story short, us knowing her playmate is sterile would bring an added level of comfort.
  14. I'm on the below average end. You would automatically assume I would want it as tight as possible, however I prefer a little bit of room to play. A well fucked swollen vagina is on par with a tight one.
  15. My wife and I are very new to the lifestyle and are discussing safety. I have had a vasectomy. She does not want to go on birth control and I didn't not want her to take it either. We are wondering how common it is for swinger men to get snipped. We want to avoid the risk of pregnancy should condoms fail. Are there couples who only chose men who have been snipped or is this a very limiting thing?
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