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Nerfmommy

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  • Birthday 10/06/1972

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  1. Thanks for all the good advice and validation that I was overanalyzing Fred and Ginger's behavior, and not to take it personally. Best- Nerfmommy
  2. Hoping someone can help me out with advice. My husband and I are HWP, MWC, mid 40's and have been married for 17+ years. I was a virgin when I met and married him. I started talking to my husband about swinging about 4-5 months ago. He is totally on board. We read some swinging articles, tips, visited the forums and read a book. We decided our first swinging experience would be to attend a swingers club in city >100 miles from where we live as I work in a conservative industry. We got there early, got the tour and I really appreciated the rules, cleanliness and dress code that this club promotes. For the first few hours, we just did lots of people watching and while there were a few women that definitely held my husband's interest, I was not interested in their partner. We had a few drinks and took a place at the bar. I finally see a guy that I told my husband "that guy over there he's cute" I made eye contact and he came right over and introduced himself- let's call him Fred. Fred and I seemed to have instant chemistry and I was definitely enjoying the attention. Fred introduced himself to my husband and then called his wife "Ginger" I call her over the meet us. We started talking about swinging of course- we told them it was our first time doing anything like this. They said that they "met in the Lifestyle" and had been swinging for a few years but had only "hooked up" about 4 times over the 2 years. I divulged to them that I was a virgin when I married my husband. Then Fred asked permission to kiss me (awesome)! We made out a bit, he showed me that he was hard and I reciprocated my interest. He asked about rules (awesome) and I said just that I required condoms and that my husband and I would tell each other when we went off with someone. He said he and his wife usually play together. Ginger says she's not really into us, but "happy to answer any questions" At one point, Fred actually takes my husband's hand and puts it on Ginger's breast, her face, her hair. Ginger is NOT having it. She at some point moves away and Fred and I are now making out and heavy petting. It is obvious I want to have sex. He asks me and I say YES. He then talks to my husband who says it's ok for us to go upstairs to one of the rooms. He tells Ginger we're going. I am kinda a mess- nervous, excited, mind racing. We get upstairs, find a clean bed, take off our clothes and I just jump him. I think he was pretty taken aback. I started giving him head and then get a condom and start putting it on him. I am so nervous that my hands are shaking and I'm having trouble getting it on. I finally think I'm successful and just climb on. He flips me over-it's hot heavy, amazing and my brain is just screaming "oh my god you are fucking another man! this is really happening". It must have been over in 5-10 mins. As soon as he pulls out, he's like " where is the condom?" CRAP. He puts his fingers inside me, we start scrambling over the bed and find it underneath my left buttcheek. He throws it away, we clean up and get our clothes on. At some point, Ginger came to the edge of the bed and got something out of Fred's jeans. I remember him being like "are you ok with this?" and Ginger nodding it was fine. Within minutes of getting his pants on Fred says "Well let's get you back to your husband." I was sort of shellshocked and kissed him and said that I was going to the bathroom. When I came out after getting myself to rights, Fred was nowhere to be seen. So then I start looking for my husband and feel like everyone is staring since we were one of the first couples of the evening to fuck. I just put my big girl pants on and tried to suck it up as I roamed the club looking for my husband. Now my husband is happy for me and now he wants to find another couple to play with. Now there are people going at it all over the club. Fred crosses my path and does not even acknowledge me. What it the lost condom? Did I get him in trouble with Ginger? What I a terrible lay? I felt like crap. My husband now wants to join in with some couples, but I cannot. He wants to go into the same room that Fred and I had just screwed in. He wants to play with girls who have partners that I want no part of. We get some more eye contact from some of the partners to me, but I am just not interested. I don't want to "take one for the team" and be pimped out like Fred tried to do to Ginger. Do other swinger wives play separately or it is always a package deal. My husband sensed my reluctance and we finally left. I was worried about the condom deal, mainly because I couldn't believe my stupidity (I know better) and I had rushed the sex. I took Plan B as soon as we got back to our home city. But they way things went down before and after with Ginger left me feeling badly. I was also feeling guilty that my husband did not get to experience any sex while I did. I want to swing again, but confused about how to approach a couple if only one partner is interested? Thoughts?
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