Tink456too

Yes, hubby just joined as well. We wanted to see if other couples had an idea of how to overcome my issues. I want to let him play and have decided my insecurities are just that and completely unwarranted. We have a strong marriage with open communication and lots of love and trust. I have realized there is no need for worry and he deserves the same fun I get. So we are going to try it. If it doesn't work we learn and move forward with a more open relationship because we are communiacting better. If it does, we add an extra level of excitement to our lives.

Hubby and I have enjoyed hotwifing for quite some time. He doesn't watch in person, but I take pics and videos. I have asked him to come watch, but it's not his thing. Although, he does like the idea of watching in secret. That isn't our issue though. I'm happy if he is. My issue is jealousy. Lately he has wanted to have another woman. This is new territory. He has always been happy with my stories, but now he wants to play too. I get very jealous and I know it is a double standard, I don't like the idea of him enjoying another woman. When he mentions it, I clam up and am not supportive of it. He and I have talked about it and we understand how each other feels. I have offered same room, but he says no, he would feel uncomfortable with that. He is clear to point out I play why can't he. I have actually told him I will give up the lifestyle if he wants so that it isn't a double standard. I want him to be happy so my question is how do I overcome the jealousy so he can have another woman?