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WhyNot?

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About WhyNot?

  • Rank
    Contributor
  • Birthday 03/02/1958

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Carlisle, pa
  • Interests
    Sex, progressive rock music, birding
  • Swinging Experience
    6 months
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    YouByMySide
  • Favorite Club(s)
    TJ's, the cottage, the korral
  1. Even at clubs she can get a lot of unplanned attention. Learn to say no, and if she can't youcan. Be glad she had fun don't judge but have a plan and stick to it. Make a code word in case either of you gets uncomfortable use it to stop the situation. J&C
  2. Originally Posted by funcoupledayton We just say, "Maybe we'll run into you at the club sometime." I'm not sure this is the best way. We're new to lifestyle and so far We have only met FWB at clubs. I have said above to folks who want to meet us privately, not that we don't necessarily want to meet but we would WANT to meet at a club. I hope that when I said that it didn't mean we weren't interested. Maybe better to say the tried and true "we're not a match" and leave it at that. Just my 2 cents J&C
  3. Well, new to this but everytime we have gone to our club(except the first) we play to varying degrees. Single guy(s), couples or each other. Most times in public rooms, just playing around, have taken it behind closed doors if it gets too intense. we like giving a show and almost always others try and join in on the fun. More often than not we are the ones to start. If we didn't want to play we could go to a regular bar. Maybe we're wrong....but bad is good? J&C
  4. Is there a good site or thread on this board that you would recommend to find out more about the local scene?

    You mentioned several places...seems that most if not all require a membership fee which could prove expensive to join them all. I saw you like the korral best...info like that will help to narrow it down. guess we are lucky to have so many options ? trying to send this as a personal message, hope you don't mind.

  5. Hello, I just joined this forum an hour ago but I'll leap right in although I'm sure theres a thread on this subject on here somewhere. Seems to be alot of free thinking people here but I am a little older (mid 50ies and by your marriage timeline you are as well) and still value the bond of marriage. She was open to the idea of bringing another partner to her husband. I know you have been together for many years and I am sure you love each other very much but in my limited experience it is all about feeling secure in the commitment that my wife and I have that affords us the trust to be ourselves sexually and explore with other people. I'm just sayin'....may not be the case for all. J&C
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