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  1. She is good to give him a chance and I am as well. I was mainly worried that there may be a problem on the second go around.
  2. She said she had a blast and those were her feelings. I should have noted that in my opinion she may have had just an okay experience (reading whats next makes me wonder why I feel this way). Shes really happy with everything and is already talking about whats next. This would not be the case if there was any hesitation on her part. At one point in the evening I went to the bathroom, specifically to give the other guy some space, my thought was that maybe he was having a hard time since I was near him on the same bed. I assumed the other woman would join in and play as a threesome. She noticed I was gone and thought I was with the other woman in a different room (we are same room only), she didn't stop nor did she want to make a scene so she just went with it. During this time the other woman was filming the action (discussed before/no problems) and she didn't know she was there. She didn't say anything to me until we left and was fine after we discussed it. In addition to that, we had a rule that we would only share in penetrative anal together and not with others. She was really enjoying herself and told him to put a finger in and shortly after tried to put his cock in. This was a rule that she wanted and was adamant about, I followed the rules while she didn't. This doesn't bother me as I believe she was just in the moment, although the same excuse would not be an option if i was "in the moment".
  3. Hello all, It's been awhile since I've posted here. We have been slowly going further and further into the lifestyle and finally made the plunge into the full swap this past weekend. Overall it was a huge success and my wife and I both enjoyed it even though it didn't go off perfectly. My wife was amazing and really did have a good time even though the other man failed to keep a good erection. She's feeling like it had a little bit to do with her but I keep reassuring her that it was not the case. I truly believe he was just having stage fright for a couple different reasons but none of which had to do with my wife. Is this a time where you just try to forget, push past and move on to a new experience? Would you see this couple again and give it another shot? We both agreed we'd like to see them again but I'm concerned that if he wasn't able to perform it would damage her confidence. My wife and I had a blast and it was a great first experience for me and probably just an okay experience for her. Luckily there was no jealousy issues or hurt feelings for the most part. Something that I'm working out on my end is the chemistry aspect of the couple we played with. We have had several soft swaps and have been to clubs but I have never had a really awesome exciting partner that I connected with. Don't get me wrong, we have had fun and I really enjoyed the other's company but I'm guessing the chemistry aspect was missing. I did not realize this until I played with the woman this weekend and realized how much chemistry we had together. I know when we initially started talking I was extremely attracted to her which isn't all that uncommon for me LOL. But as soon as we met up it moved quickly and we both were extremely into each other probably more so than my wife and him. The experience was out-of-this-world for me and I'm guessing this is because of the chemistry that everybody always talks about, is that what you would guess? Trying to accurately pinpoint emotions and feelings through our process of swinging has been interesting and I think this is another first for me in the feelings department. I guess this is what can make swinging so amazing. I just wish my wife had the same level of experience as I did and I feel somewhat guilty about this.
  4. You are blessed with an amazing gift, be proud! My wife is as well and it is so erotic. As a man, being the reason she is gushing is one of the most rewarding moments. I'm also a kinky guy and fluids dont bother me at all. I can understand why others assume it must be piss but i am confident its not, this is based upon experience not just theory. We have played the whole watersports game and there is a definite difference. I could go into detail but i will spare you. There will be people who love it and others that avoid it. I would suggest being upfront about it during initial discussions. This way you can gauge thier reaction before getting to deep and possibly having an uncomfortable situation. Definitely a turn on, to bad your so far away.
  5. Thanks for the reply I think our main issue is that we are placing this in the std category and therefore having a lot of emotions that are really not helpfull. I would really like to hear what others would do in our situation specifically would you play with them again or have any reservations in doing so?
  6. Hi all. We had a great softswap foursome experience to break us into the lifestyle. Only have one issue..... wife now has BV. Waiting to get tested was a bit emotional as my wife always thinks of the worst case senario. Had the full std testing today and its BV although we wont know for sure if thats all since they send out a few of the specific tests to a different lab. Now we are talking about the situation we are in and the other couple. It most likely was from them as things were off a bit the day after for her. I had a fairly stong burning sensation during the ride home but nothing further. So what would others suggest we do? Tell them to get checked? Assume they are not keeping good care of themselves and not play with them again? We can only guess its from them as this is our only experience so far. They certainly dont have any clue whats going on with us as they just contacted us to set up another play date.
  7. So we've only been on SLS for about a week and one thing has become abundantly clear that the men are the main point of contact as opposed to the women. When we planned and had discussions on how we would handle things I was very adamant that I wanted her to be the one making contact and discussing things. Ultimately I want her to be comfortable and it is her decision if it proceeds forward. I find it strange that the guy's are the main contact and kind of creepy. It makes it hard for us to distinguish who's real and who's doing things without their spouse's knowledge. What have all of you experienced as the norm?
  8. Just thought of something else. I have heard it suggested and discussed that you can meet up at a club with people you have meet on a swing site like SLS. This may allow you to build up some sexual chemistry before meeting face to face. I would assume this would better your chances of getting it on! Even if things don't click in person you always have everyone else that you can get to know.
  9. Awesome, please give us an update after you go. I hope everything goes well!
  10. We have yet to make a trip to menages. With having small children it is hard to get away. I love the idea of getting there and going into full swing mode but I actually don't want to, yet. I want to make sure my wife is completely comfortable and on board along the way so the safest way I see is to dip in slowly. We are both nervous and starting slow and putting on a show seems like a good place to start. Have you had any experience New2swing1? Considering your name, it sounds like we may be both starting out. Just curious if this is your starting point like us.
  11. My wife and I are new to the whole idea of swinging. I never expected her to ever consider this. After much discussion she decided one evening to apply for a membership to menages. I had done research and it seems like this club may be a good fit for us. My question is would this be a good club for a couple with zero experience to check out? I think the first experience is extremely important as it will set her perception of who swingers are and how the swinging world works. Ultimately she would feel comfortable in an upscale and sexy atmosphere, just want to make sure this would be the best choice. We are located in southern Indiana so Nashville is an easy trip along with several other large cities. Any other suggestions would be appreciated.
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