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Cplenextdoor

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About Cplenextdoor

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  • Birthday 05/12/1972

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Niagara Falls
  • Swinging Experience
    Very New
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. After much discussion we are getting closer to making a move into making our fantasy, a reality. She has agreed to meet with another couple or a single guy. The problem now is me. I am so nervous on adult sites sharing face pictures. We have plenty of sexy pictures but nothing with faces. When we get to that point I get nervous. Being online you don't know who you are getting involved with. My worry would be that a person could turn into a stalker or worse. I know most swingers sound like amazing laid back people like us but the online crazies are slowing our jump. Any suggestions for getting over this or ways to vet better?
  2. We have gotten some great advice on here. We really appreciate the input. In this case I think we move on from online chats and emails.
  3. So far we have only been using Adult Friend Finder to look for couples that we might be compatible with. Our profile is clear in what we are looking for in a couple and it's nothing overly picky. At the end we state we move at our own pace and we are looking to start with same room with our partners. When we start a conversation with a couples or single men over the IM I always say "We move at our own pace which may be two slow for some. If that's not what your looking for that's ok. We can move on. Everyone always says they are ok with it. Every time we get two or three emails into a conversation they push for a meeting. Most recently without even seeing a picture of them and they only gave 3 or 4 one word answers. With it being online and us being new to all of this I don't want to end up having a bad experience with a pushy single or couple. That would totally our interest in lifestyle. Looking for advice for those with experience. Are we doing something wrong? How long is a typical chat before a meeting? We are ready to give up on the online version
  4. Wow. Great advice!!! She is hooked on the show now and loves it. We have watched a bunch of episodes.
  5. Thanks so much for taking the time on that great reply. It was very helpful.
  6. Wow some really great replies. It's good to know that we are not alone. She is an amazing woman and I think patience will pay off in the end. We really have come a long way when I look back. Patience will pay off.
  7. Update: So we have been talking a lot about our fantasies and it had been great. In fact we went away over Christmas to a resort in the Carribean and had some really good times. We had one of the craziest sex nights of our marriage when the "dirty talk" turned to a threesome with a friend. She got right into it and explained in detail while we were having sex how she wanted to please us both. The problem is she doesn't want to plan anything ahead. She said if it happens in the heat of the moment then it would happen. My thought is that i just need to set the right circumstances and let things happen? I think she is still a bit too shy to say out loud that she really wants this.
  8. Will keep you informed for sure. Had a great talk this weekend. She wants to try a meet with a couple from Adult Friend Finder and would like to get together with one of my single friends for drinks soon. I really want the first time to go well.
  9. Thanks for the advice. It is all very helpful.
  10. Hi All This is the male half writing this post and looking for feedback. We are a happily married couple for over 20 years with a great sex life. We are mid 40's. She has a great body, an amazing ass and is a 34dd. We have talked a lot about swinging with another straight male or couple. Problem is it hasn't went further. I would love to go the next step but she still is a bit resistant. Here are the signs - she likes to watch mfm porn and often requests it. - she will dress sexy when we go out with my male friends to get them turned on - they will talk sexy to her about her hot ass, sex and one guy even has grabbed her ass a few times and is progressing for more. She has told me she likes it and it makes her horny. - she has allowed me accidentally on purpose to show pictures of her in a thong and other poses to a mutual friend. - we talk about it during sex sometimes and she will even role play I am another guy pleasuring her. We both get turned on by that. - we practice for mfm when she is really hot by using a dildo while she sucks. - she has even said she would go to drinks with another swinger couple or hedo but isn't sure about going all the way Is she just waiting for me to set it up or is she just happy with fantasy play?
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