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Curioshusband

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About Curioshusband

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 02/10/1972

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  • Relationship Status
    M. Male
  • Location
    North Carolina
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    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. I really appreciate the more informative responses. I feel like I have some substantial information that I can discuss with my wife. In fact, I will more than likely show her this forum first with all the responses.
  2. Thank you guys! That was very helpful. The last two post are the things that I was hoping to gain from signing into this site.
  3. I see why the post came across as hostile. Yeah, I can only imagine the characters that people come across. I think that is my wife's fear too. That the lifestyle is just a bunch of cheating men or pervs. That is what I'm trying to discover; what is the reality of it. So, knowing what everyone has shared; I would not attend a meet and greet alone. Of course, I was never looking to hook up. I like the idea of talking with a couple at a regular venu just for q&a. I never meant to upset anyone. This is all new to me and we are as plain as you can get in experiences.
  4. Wow. My wife and I had talked about it before. But, her words were that those types of places were sleazy or not safe. That's her opinion about it. So, I thought I would see what the modern day "lifestyle" was like. Then, approach the subject again with more information. Never been involved in anything like this and not looking for a place to cheat. I don't think anyone needs a website for that. Pretty easy to do that anywhere in the world. If you look at my original post, I wanted to talk to couples. Nothing about hooking up. So much for the open mildness, I felt attack. But, I can see that there are other people out there with hidden agendas. One of my biggest concerns was rather it is better to utilize clubs or try to develop relationships with friends. I didn't want to show up somewhere with my wife and have a swarm of men around her. So, please forgive me for being overprotective.
  5. Thanks for the comments. Good advice. I can see where coming alone would look awkward to others. I appreciate the tips on location and rules. That would help prevent some awkwardness as well.
  6. How did you guys decide where to start? Just going to a club right from the start seems very intimidating. I would want to check out the atmosphere before I brought my wife.
  7. Is there such a thing as going to a swingers event to solely meet active swingers to gain insight and not be an active participant. I don't want to waste anyone's time, but I would love to talk with real couples and see what the lifestyle is like? Just tell me if that's dumb. But, kindly point me in the direction to communicate with a few couples.
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