Hey everybody: We're new here. My wife started asking me not too long ago if we could get into the "lifestyle". When I asked what she meant she told me that some of our friends (she won't tell me which ones) have been into swinging for a while and told her about it, and she thinks it sounds like a lot of fun.
She has always fantasized about public sex and she wants to go to a swingers party and have us do it with 'everyone in the place watching us'. Sounds pretty scary to me. Never done anything like this before. It's just, when she told me what she wanted to do to me, she had her nails dug into my arm, and was just trembling. Oh, and "Mister, I'm going to doggystyle buttf*ck the sh*t outta you!" Wow. I liked hearing that part. It's always turned me on when she gets in a dirty talking mood. I'm really pretty hesitant about doing something like this but she says "You can just totally have your way with me. Bend me over the table and real animal f*ck me. You know, just plow me!" Well, I like that part. It's just the part about people watching. To me, that sounds terrifying. She says no, it's really hot.
She wants to do her other fantasy,too. What's that I says. "Being in a great big orgy With people screaming out orgasms all around us." I'm afraid of every guy in the place running up and jumping on her. She's a very beautiful lady, and I'm not sure I can handle something like that. She says she'll be busy making me scream. I can't believe she's got me thinking about doing this.
Does anybody else like doing stuff like this? Is it normal? If there are some out there who have done things like this and it worked out okay, I would really like to hear your stories before committing to Nanette that I will do this. It just sounds scary to me. Although, it was a turn on with her trembling, nails dug into my arm, telling me how hard she was going to do me. Wow. She thinks it could be fun to do some swapping. I'm not so sure about doing that. What is wanting to do it with an audience even called? So scary. Is this something you CAN do at a club or party? Would some be willing to just watch, without touching her, if I can't handle it?
Thank you. from Oby and Nanette.