Dirtykinkyfun

Thanks Angel and JandK, great points and perspectives. I think we will try the meet and greets. We did one with a couple last weekend and my wife liked it and was against it before. Reducing the stress of it really makes sense.

So how does everything try to schedule dates, for meet and greets or meet and plays with people online? If you talk to just one couple it could take a month or months to either meet or find out they're not serious. If you talk to several and want to meet how far in advance do you ask to meet? We will ask a couple to meet in say two weekends. When we hear back and they can't or their not serious about meeting its too late to ask another couple and we've lost a weekend we could have met or played. How does everyone do it?

Hi, thanks for all the responses! To answer one question about meeting more than one couple at once. We love group sex and what we mention was about possibly asking a few couples to meet at a hotel for a meet and play together. As for clubs my wife is afraid of bumping into someone she knows. The argument about them revealing themselves too doesn't work for us as we heard people talking about people they met at a swingers club out loud in the break room where we used to work. Also we are an average couple and not great with cold calls at clubs. I'd still love to go to one, but she's pretty firm about not. We will have to try the hot date again, and update our profile with some sort of play on the first date thing.

We've done this a couple times but getting frustrated. We're looking to meet and play the first date if there is chemistry. Everyone else seems to want to meet and greet first or have dinner. We have limited time to play, mostly Saturday's and one a month is out due to Aunt Flo. What's a good way to frame this on our online profile? We also have problems setting a date. Either couples all lag replying and then reply all at once or we make a date then get all sorts of last minute offers. Seems like we try to set one date and then it falls through. We need help on strategy. We're good with more than one couple at once, but how do we suggest it for more than one couple to meet us at once. My wife isn't comfortable going to someone's house to play or to have them to ours, she likes hotels. This is also causing complications. Ideas, suggestions?