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crimsonfur82

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About crimsonfur82

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 03/08/1982

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  • Relationship Status
    Single Bi Male
  • Location
    The Dalles, Oregon
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    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. Thank you for the suggestions so far. I have two other concerns/fears though: 1. I made myself a promise that I would not date/hookup with any more guys until AFTER I experienced an MMF or two. This has put me in the awkward position of bringing up MMF immediately when first-messaging guys online. I've only had one or two remotely positive replies so far, though - and the conversation hasn't kept up well even with them. My biggest fear is that finding an MMF is going to take so long, that I could spend a lot of time rejecting attractive male partners simply because they can't do what I want them to do. Hopefully my "promise to self" doesn't turn into a self-imposed deprivation that goes on for a year or longer! 2. The flip-side of trying to find something more elusive in the dating world (like MMF), is that when an eligible partner or couple finally does come along, he/she/they may be a major compromise in terms of appearance, personality, and even sexual chemistry. I know I felt this way with the first woman I slept with; she was far from my ideal choice in terms of body type or demeanor. I felt I was only choosing her because she was the only one who replied "Yes" to my show-me-the-ropes message I sent out to dozens of local girls. The second lady I met was a better match, but I had to travel to the nearest big city to meet her. All in all I'm worried that when an MMF threesome finally happens, there are going to be so many "compatibility compromises" involved that it won't be enjoyable. I hope my fears in this regard are not going to be confirmed, because nothing makes me angrier than confirmed fear!
  2. I'm not comfortable flirting with strangers in a bar/club setting, at least not at this stage in my life. Yes I have had two female sexual partners so far and would like to experience more.
  3. Cplnuswing said "put together a real good profile". What would that look like for a single bi male?
  4. Hi, I'm 34yo and used to think of myself as gay - but in the past year or two I've accepted that I'm actually bi instead. I've come to the conclusion that I REALLY want to experience an MMF three-way hookup sometime soon; in fact, it's my most immediate priority in terms of overall dating/sexuality. Is swinger culture a good choice for a single bi male seeking a threesome, to find what he's looking for? Or is single male swinging only for those guys who are patient enough to spend lots of time in the social scene? Because I live in a small town and only get to the city about once a month, and I'm looking for the easiest way to find what I want: a willing bisexual man AND woman who want to do a three-way with me. If not swinging, where should I look? I'm having no luck by contacting gay/flex/bi guys on OKCupid, most of them are "too gay" to agree to anything involving women.
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