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This surely gets tricky as my husband is fully into women and not looking for sex with men per say....he wants to jerk off a cock mainly and I'm hope it would eventually lead to oral haha. My husband is straight, and very manly, just something that as we got older have thought about. So I'm not sure if either of us should be listed as bi curious even as its a fantasy we both have but it isn't all. I tried to write as clear as possible in the profile what we are looking for. I don't want anyone looking at our initial and thinking my husband is fully bi as that he is not lol.

I take it that most won't reply to free members? Is there a reason for this? We may go paid but want to be sure it's worth the monthly before doing so.

We made our profile on SLS and hope something comes from it. I listed us both as bi curious as we are just that, curious....neither of us have ever done anything bi before but we would both love touch at least touch the same sex and maybe oral. Why is it that so many men are listed as straight but when you read the profile they do seem to enjoy light bi play? Yet women will quickly list as bisexual? Will listing my husband as bi curious hinder our search? I mean he isn't looking for full sex with a man, more like to jerk one off, so should that be listed as bi curious? Thanks.

Thanks for all the replies....we won't put a face picture on SLS but have no problem sharing it in email if it comes to that. A couple years back we did chat with a man twice and we chatted with him together and expected to also chat once or twice with his wife before meeting yet his wife was "never available" so needless to say we never met him lol. I know we don't need to chat forever but I think a couple emails, a phone call with all parties to be sure it's truly a couple, and a real picture would be nice. In no way am I saying that we need to talk for a month but I definitely want to feel slightly comfortable before meeting and especially want to know who to look for.

This one couple messages us, only changed 2 brief emails and quickly suggested meeting without seeing our pics or sharing theirs with us....is it us, or isn't that a bit strange? I think a few emails, exchange of picks, and then decide if all are on board with liking each others looks...

We have posted now on SLS so hope to meet some nice people. We are both bi curious but never acted on it so would love to. My biggest fantasy is to see my husband pleasure his first man. Seems we get mostly single bi curious or straight men replying. I'm not against that for a one time safe play but that's not all we are looking for.

Yes we are definitely looking for people 55+, the older the better. Just seems to be our starting preference.

My husband and I are looking into this lifestyle but wondering the best sites out there? Also any sites for those over 45? We are in NJ and would love a couple 60+ both of us are bicurious but never explored that (in case that matters lol) thanks