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Sun, thank you for the reply! As far as them playing at our pace, it makes a lot of sense, and we thought about that as well. That was one of the reasons why we/she asked what the boundaries were. Their may have been something said on our end as well to the effect of, "well, we aren't exactly sure how to proceed from this point..." This all after the hour of chat at their house. Regarding the attraction level, we took it as a sign that since we were in three different locations with them, that there was an attraction. If not, we would have been more than fine with them ending the night, and us going home, because at the end of the day, we still get to go home with our partner! We also understand what you said concerning bisexuality. If the other woman is not attracted though, I have to really question why she would initiate any sort of kissing, groping, and even straddling her in the strip club. Also, another sign that she is attracted. If there was none, we would much prefer honesty to a few hours of awkwardness. It won't hurt our feelings haha. Again, thank you for writing. I hope none of this came across as argumentative, or that I'm discounting any of what you are saying. Just want it known that many of these things have come up in the conversations between Mrs. C and myself.

Thank you very much for your response, MD79! Very good information. We were curious as to whether they were atteacted to us or not as well, but given that we went to two different places before getting an invite back to their house, we took this to be a good sign. We assumed (there is that word) that if there was no attraction, no invite to their house is offered. In any event, even though the play time wasn't great, we still had a good time prior to that. Can't complain about a good night of laughs. We are disappointed with the play time but not to the point of not trying again, and again, if necessary. We've done a good amount of reading and we've found that no two experiences are the same, and not all of them are great.