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  1. Thank you so much. It looks like wife wants to play after all, but we'll try to play with each other first and we will as the night goes on. It is amazing how the rapid changes took place ever since I talked my wife into the Lifestyle. She is so so much more sexual, from very shy meek Asian wife to a very wild in bed. I loved it. Thank you for guiding us with your advice, hope someday we will meet each other too.
  2. Or swinging experience is starting. We created an account at Love Voodoo and were invited to our first party. Please let us know what to expect. Is it ok not to play? Wife is very excited and nervous at the same time. What if we see people we know? Should we tell them our real names? Thank you so much.
  3. were experimenting with DP too but we decided just to use toys. right now im still training my wife for anal with but plugs. we will buy a thicker dildo as she loves to feel full (were aiming for a 2.5 to 3 inch black dildo). i would love to see my petite wife stretched on both holes. by the way ever experienced bringing toys to play with others? to every one thank u so much again for your untiring replies. we really appreciate your help guys and gals from the swinging community
  4. first rule that we have is no penetration. the next is within same room as we both love to see each other. my wife doesnt like the taste of cum so the third is no cum in mouth. this is the rules that we just talked about but if u can help us more it will be appreciated. but to tell u the truth we would like to see each other penetrated but for health reasons decided against it.
  5. We're finalizing our rules as we want to try soft swap. We are asking for your insights again as to how u guys made yours. Furthermore, I've read in some previous advices to try couple dating with another swingers without sex first. May we ask is it ok for swingers just to date? If so where can we find those couples willing to just chill out and talk with us... help us through or talk with us on our journey. Again thank you.
  6. hi md, Issah here, thank you so much, I'm so flattered ☺️☺️☺️. It is really hard for me to step into something if I feel I'm not confident about it. Hubby and I are talking about posting our pics in ratemywand and we will both read comments, he said it will help build confidence. Of course I told him not to show my face. Your help is really appreciated and we now feel a bit comfortable... still sorting out other issues. Hope you won't get tired answering questions, thank you again. To everyone... Thank you so much. You really took your time to help us out. Your advice really gave us insight on the truth about swingers. Thank you so much for your help, I hope you won't get tired giving us tips to help us out. This really paved way to our communication. Hubby and I are enjoying honest talks with regards to our intimacy. I tell him what I don't like and he always make sure to take my feelings in consideration. Right now we are creating our rules to guide us by. We want to try soft swapping so if you can help us with tips on rules it will be greatly appreciated. Again thanks, it is true that swingers are really nice people.
  7. Hi, this is jp. To everyone who gave advice, thank you so much. My wife and I understand more and are starting to be more open. She enjoys every step we take. Right now I think her issues are more on self confidence, she tells me she is not beautiful enough. I will talk her through it. If you guys got more tips, please help us. Again thank you so much.
  8. Thank you so much md, I really appreciate it. I understand a bit now and it really calmed my nerves. You really are nice people... I know I'm asking a lot but if I still have questions... if we still have questions... can you help us? Thanks again.
  9. Hi this is Issah (wife)... thank you so much for the advice. Here's the reason why I'm nervous, and I talked this through with my hubby. 1. My hubby is the first man who touched me and we were raised in a conservative culture... everything is first, first kiss, first lovemaking. 2. I'm afraid that he will not respect me after this... 3. I'm afraid that I will not be attractive to other men. Again, thank you so much for all the help.
  10. Finally... Wife and I talked and I was amazed that we share the same feelings, we both get aroused to see each other being pleased by others. We concluded that we would like to try soft swap when we go to Hdo on July 2017. My wife will be reading this and she is very much ok with seeing me with another girl, in fact she is very much aroused by it. However she is a bit tentative to be touched by another man. I told her that it is ok with me and would very much enjoy to see her do it. Can you please give advice to my wife to ease her fears? Any steps that we need to look for the right couple? Thank you very much, it is very much a surprise for me to realize that my wife also has the same fantasy. I want the first experience to be the best for her so all help will be appreciated.
  11. thank you so much for the advice i will follow it and will try to talk to her prior to hedo. i pretty much know which is ok for her and its only the actual swapping that is in the gray area. an good update though is we had our third session of gangbang roleplay and she still absolutely love it i she specially love being dped by a big black dildo and her butplug (i told her to imagine she is being sandwiched by 2 black men) she came so hard. that is a huge improvement, about 2 years ago she is disgusted by porn, refused sex toys and we have sex once a week. i guess i better just take it slow and count my blessings. i like her wild side now so i think i will try to slowly open up the communication lines. forgive us, being asian our culture has pounded us that we should have conservative sex. my wife usually clams up after sex and were just not used to talking about it. we will take it slow we still have a year to lay out the rules(before hedo july2017) any other tips for us will be greatly appreciated.
  12. hehe im trying to be sneaky like il talk to someone and have him massage her she thinks a professional masseuse but il have it set up so he will seduce her. she is ok with the massage but do u think it is ok for me to kinda like trick her a little seduction to get her there? thanks for all the help
  13. Hi thank you so much for the advice. Yeah just got so excited with her recent change that I thought she is ready. You're right, I'll let her do her steps without pressure and I'll enjoy the ride. We booked prude side so we can extend the days we will be there for about 10 days. I'm just happy she is open now, a year ago she wouldn't even do blowjob, now she is talking of doing it in the open (nude pool/hot tub Hedo). hehe I can't even imagine that, but thank you so much I don't want to mess this up for her. By the way, I'm thinking of getting someone to massage and tease her when we are there, is that ok?
  14. I just confirmed our date to go to Hedo July 2017. My shy wife slowly changed since then. She is very open now to nudity (I got her not wear panties under her dress at home and even outside). She loves sex toys now especially the bbc dildo and recently I tried gangbang roleplay using dildos for dp and she absolutely loved it. Are we getting there yet? I mean I don't expect her to swing on her first Hedo trip but at least she is considering other men even if it is just fantasy. She is very open to exhibitionism and I'm sure she will be comfortable with us giving a show in Hedo but I want to see her take another cock badly. Any advice guys to nudge her towards the path?
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