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About goodtimes4us

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    Always up for fun!
  • Birthday 02/06/1973

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  1. Actually that is part of my husband's problem too. He's only been able to come twice with a condom on and it took a lot of work and effort. But unfortunately in the LS they are a must.
  2. We seem to have the same problem at getting things started. I know when we were new another couple had us play some games to break the ice, one of them being sexy dice. It took hours of warming up before we finally played. Others that are more forward with us seem to get us to play a lot sooner. Our problem is we aren't forward enough sometimes (or I don't take their hints seriously enough I guess) so we end up missing opportunities. We're trying to figure out what to do to speed things up as well. The thing that I am going to focus on is maybe being more subtle with hints like touching their back, arms, legs occasionally to test waters and boundaries, flirt a little more and maybe play some games as well. We have a newer couple coming over tonight and we're going to have a few drinks, get in the hot tub and maybe play sexy dice or truth or dare if we need to in order to get things going. When we've seen more successful couples at parties it seems that they just go for it. The more you put things off the more the other couples get disinterested. I hope that helps.
  3. My husband has this problem as well and it's not just with other women. When we were first together I thought something was wrong with me because he doesn't always cum. He says he's always had this problem and that he still loves to have sex and he has a great time but sometimes it just doesn't happen. This has been hard for some of the other women in the LS because they take it that he isn't having a good time when indeed he is. We have to explain to them that it's totally normal for him. But he's also extremely satisfied making the women cum over and over and he has fantastic oral skills! Now the women just find it a challenge to try to make him cum.
  4. That is a good idea. I'm sure we could find someone to help us out in that area.
  5. We love to throw house parties and have a great turnout (last weekend was almost 60 people) but our problem is we usually don't end up playing with anyone because we're too busy hosting or mingling with everyone. We always want to play but it just seems it doesn't happen very much when we host. What are some ideas or things we can do to be able to play and host? Is it rude to just take off for a while and play? What do others do?
  6. Thanks everyone for the good advice. No I didn't feel like I was taking one for the team I guess. I just wanted clarification, especially with my husband. Because yes sometimes you can not be as attracted to someone but still have great sex. Guys it may be different for some because if it's not there it shows.
  7. So we are new to the LS and met a couple where the wife was totally hot but the husband not so much. His personality was great and he was fun in the bedroom but just not as attractive to me (wife). I didn't want to be "taking one for the team" but his wife was totally bi and very fun herself so I felt like I wasn't really taking one for the team because I got to play with her too. Is this a common thing for the wife to be ok with playing even if the guy isn't exactly doing it for her but the wife is? Or is that really "taking one for the team" and we should really pass?
  8. We're new to this. We've had one experience that didn't go exactly as planned but was definitely a learning experience and we were able to find out some things that we need to change/work on. Looking forward to our next experience!
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