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I've known the people for years, they always were hinting around about swinging but I could never confirm it. They invited us out to a party they were throwing and when we got there the male half of the couple was very much in our personal space. One guest even grabbed my wife and looked down her shirt playfully (it was a female who did it). We got the vibe from a few people so we ended up leaving. The couple haven't spoken to us in a year. So that was an odd experience. My wife is curious about being with another woman, we talked and set the boundaries, she even talked about another guy in the mix but was not very enthusiastic about that. Either way we talked it over. Maybe it'll happen maybe not who knows.

Hey all, thanks for your responses. I talked with her about last night and as she explained it there was a thought process behind it but it wasn't an outright hint or push for anything. We have talked about swinging in the past and she has stated that she would have jealousy issues so we've never gone any further, not to mention a very awkward experience last New Years when we were invited to a swing party without the knowledge that it was a swing party. Last nights conversation went well and she opened up about fantasies that she had. She's bicurious but we both agreed that if we went through with a threesome it would be for her and there would be no touching between me or the other girl, which I'm fine with. But again, thank you all for the advice, it was a great help!!

I'm a complete moron when it comes to taking hints, think Larry David from Curb Your Enthusiasm. The other night my wife and I were having dinner, she's a very conservative type, and she asked if I thought men have better blow jobs than women. We talked about it and each told our own thoughts. The reason why I am here is that I need some advice. As I said we have talked about threesomes before, but she is very conservative, vanilla in bed, but with a high sex drive. The conversation she started the other night though has me wondering: for her to bring that out of the blue like that, was she hinting at anything that she would like to do? We openly communicate about sex, but there are things, such as swinging, that she immediately says no to, but there's something underneath her tone that suggests otherwise. I'm on here trying to get some advice just to see if I should pursue the conversation with her more and how to go about it. Thanks in advance for all the help.