Well I figured what better place to ask my question / our question than here. After many months of bringing up the idea of swinging, Abby finally became interested or at least more into it. So I could write all the details but here are the main key points.
She is one of those women that is absolutely not into women, like at all. Couples swing was out and to be honest Not a deal breaker for me. So as one of my fantasies I finally told her I would like to see her with another guy and myself as a mfm. She seems to like the idea but of course the details are rough and we figured we could work our way up to it. Parts of ironing out the details meant interests in the kind of guy, so far she likes Spanish or Latin guys (she is very white but it's her fetish), she is more into uncut penises than cut but not a deal breaker and she would like the guy to have a thicker one rather than a long one. Must be a stranger for a one time thing and we have to be in control the whole time including our privacy.
Since then we have started to use a dildo for anal play during sex as a DP and needless to say she lasts about 10 seconds before she has the most serious orgasms. During sex we have talked about her getting it from another guy and she kinda likes it but is still shy. Now my questions...I am very into this fantasy but I have no idea how I will feel after seeing her with another guy, sucking him or even seeing her just cum on someone else's dick. To be honest I am not the super jealous guy and I am always encouraging her to dress sexier and even show the most skin possible lol but idk how it'll be until that moment. How did you guys feel?
Abby wants me to ask you ladies, did you feel any loss of respect for your man after the fact for wanting to share? We have been together 10 years mind you and have been exclusive to one another.
Ans for the guys, once that first orgasm happens and the fantasy fades. There is a 5 min the period where there's no more desire and I am worried i will cum and ahe will continue to fuck and I'm gonna be jealous. How to handle this? I'm sure I'll be horny again and I will get back to the game but how to handle that small period of time.
I'm sorry for the long post.