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ORcoastCpl

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About ORcoastCpl

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 04/28/1982

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Lane County, OR
  • Swinging Experience
    Less than 6 months
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. Thank you so much for your opinions and advice! This is exactly why we're here, to learn and get advice from people that have been in similar circumstances. We took everything into consideration and decided to tell one of the couples, it went really good. They were open to a different perspective and told us that if it makes us happy then they're fine with it. I'm relieved and feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders, this was the couple that lives closest to us and we spend the most time with, to be able to be myself and not have to hide anything is important to me. The male half has been my best friend since we were 10 and he knew something was up, I trust him with my life. As for the other couple, we have decided not to say anything to them. We're pretty sure the female half would be accepting but the male half is another story. Best to keep things as is with them.
  2. We were at non swinger friends' house for their son's birthday party. This couple has been our closest friends for almost 20 years. They went to high school with hubby, and our kids are now growing up together. The other couple there was my best friend from high school and his wife. These are the two couples that we spend time with more than anyone else. We were sitting around talking when someone brought up another couple we know that apparently swings. They all started talking about how weird and disgusting it was that they would go out and sleep with someone else. My heart dropped. They weren't talking about us, because no one has any idea of what we've been up to, but it was like a slap in the face to hear them saying those things and the disgust in their voices Hubby says we should just tell them and explain things, like the rules we have and what not, and if they can't accept that part of us then who cares. I'm afraid it'll create a permanent weirdness because I feel they'll never accept that part of our lives, I don't want to lose my best friends! Anyone else been in a similar situation? What do you think about telling them vs keeping our mouths shut? We hate hiding things, we are who we are....I don't know....
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