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averagejoe1534

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About averagejoe1534

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  • Birthday 03/05/1979

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    Couple
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    Chicago Suburbs
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    Never
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    12/27

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    AverageJaneandJoe

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  1. Thanks CoupleInMD, of course I don't mean you. I like your advice though, it makes logical sense. Rules are rules. The whole point of this is to do this together, at least for us. I don't know where this is leading. Likely nowhere, but again I can't say enough thanks to those that have been actively responding to my questions the last few days. As for the 4-way match, that's up to Ms. Joe. I have suggested the MFM in the past. I want her to be happy. I'm sure I'd be happy in most situations as long as I'm a part of the process. She's even mentioned how hot it gets her to see me flirting with another woman. I think that's the hint that made me explore this site. Stay tuned I guess!
  2. Thank you all. I actually spoke to Mrs. Joe today about the forum. Taking it slow, but I think tonight or soon we're going to re-emerge on here as a couple and see where it takes us! I don't think there's a way to update this current user name, so it'll have to be something different I suppose. I plan on showing her the previous posts and advice from all you great people!
  3. I didn't think it was a medical issue. It is just messy. Bonus for those who think it's a turn-on! Thanks everyone!
  4. Not stains as in grass stains. Just wet spots. I guess you could call it "discharge" but it's just pre-cum. It's not gonorrhea. I must have a lot to give, it just wants to get going!
  5. Thanks Couple. I'm sure these responses are common. Sometimes it's hard to find an existing thread that's almost exactly our situation. I'm glad everyone here has been nice so far with responses even if it's redundant. That being said, great point on the price comparison. I understand about the membership/door fees. I'm also sure at strip clubs, women may get in free or significantly discounted. I'm no regular there, but I've heard the same things about dances with women. Could be fun :-) I've also heard many lifestyle clubs are strict about the "not interested" rule so I'm no longer concerned about that. I'm sure the answer varies by the couple, but what is the etiquette when being asked to play with another couple? I guess, what I'm asking is what if the Mrs isn't hitting it off with Mr Couple, but I'm interested in Mrs Couple? Hypothetically, of course I'm sure we'd fall back on our individual couple rules. Ever run into that or similar situation?
  6. When I'm aroused, I tend to leak pre-cum. I don't "tend" to, I do...a lot. If I'm not careful during foreplay, there are stains in my pants. Anyone else have this problem, if it is a problem? I understand it's probably common and a normal function. How do you deal with it? I'm smiling as I write this, but I'm glad to have this forum so I can discuss such things!
  7. Thank you to both of you. I considered clubs, I'm nervous about the pressure to participate. I suppose if we're up front about it, it won't be a problem. I also considered strip clubs. But that could be costly and doesn't provide privacy/anonymity. She brought up the thought of women after I told her I once had a MM encounter in college. It turns out it wasn't completely what I wanted, but it was hot to play. Part of our sexual awakening has been anal play with her. She can't get enough! So occasionally I started entering and using a thumb and that drives her wild! So I've mentioned about a MFM and she doesn't seem receptive. But this is before any talk of swinging has happened (remember, I'm doing my research still). She still is self conscious about how her body looks after several children. I guess I don't know where I'm going with this. I think I need to take my time and discuss this a lot more. Maybe it is just a fantasy, which I'm fine with. I only want to make her feel comfortable, maybe this will take a lot longer than I think. No need to rush I guess. Plus I think any more research needs to include Mrs Joe.
  8. A little background, we're new to the forum (actually it's only Mr. Joe right now). Married 12 years and recently experienced a sexual awakening. She's 37 and I'm 36. The sex was always there, but dare I say vanilla. Though I know she's always been gorgeous, she started to work out a bit the past year and feels much better about her body and boy does she have a WILD side. We've done things I never considered we would ever attempt. Perhaps not as wild as some I'm sure. We've been talking about our sex lives more and recently confided that she's interested to be with a woman. Perhaps it's only a fantasy, but that got me to think maybe she would actually be interested to let this play out. But how to do it? Can I keep making suggestions about it? If it's only a fantasy, I don't want her think it's for me. I'm not even sure I could please two women! Why else do it, right?! I'm not experienced in the lifestyle either and have concerns like most people about privacy, STD's, jealousy, etc... I don't really know the ins and outs (pun intended) of planting this seed. Are there chat rooms available? Would anyone suggest posting a profile (with her permission) to meet? I think we would be into doing things on a cam with a female or another couple. Any particular video chatting apps better than others? FaceTime? I'm doing my research and want to bring her in on it once I know she would want to do it for real. I apologize for being all over the place. I am new here and I'm sure to get the hang of it after a little while! TIA! Joe
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