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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 09/08/1980

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    Spain
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  1. WOW, shit, I do not know how I would have responded. How is their relationship now, are they interacting normally? have you talked with your wife about this? For me the second round would have been breach of trust, but glad you came out of it okay, if you still are Would you do it again? would she?
  2. Hi Everyone We are a young married couple 35 and 37 years old and been together since 16 and 18 years of age. We are pretty new to this LS and with little experience. We have gone to clubs in Europe, but not done anything too serious, mostly just enjoyed the environment and played with ourself. We have thought about meeting up with couples, for soft swinging if we would like them, however we are so unsure about how we would feel, that we are hesitant. The husband has read quit a lot of threads here and has maybe a better idea on how far he could go but wife is anxious about how she would feel with him just touching another women as the feeling of thinking about it gives her an uncomfortable feeling, in the pit of her stomach. She would like to try MFM first since that is the only scenario where she does not get a anxious thinking about him he however is more comfortable with meeting couples, specially couple that have been in a long term relations ship. Do we all feel this way in the beginning? and does it go away ? or is this just not for us since this uncomfortable feeling comes up?
  3. We are passing through Paris on Friday and were thinking of going to a club there, are there any here who have been to clubs in Paris that they would recommend or recommend not to.
  4. Hi I am sorry for your situation, but if you do not at all like or get turned on by MFF then you should not do it. I don't know if that is something that one ends up liking, with time, but I doubt it. I think that it is probably best for you to stop MFM as well, because I think that he might also be doing that in the hope that you might want more in the future, so he does not want to close any doors right now. I think swinging is just going to be dangerous to your marriage if you are not on the same page.
  5. Hi michael I have one question for you You see I and my wife are going to Berlin and Amsterdam this month and were thinking of going to insomnia berlin and fun4two or something similar in Amsterdam so what I wanted to ask is what was the average age there when you went 2 years ago. I and my wife are newbies in the lifestyle, and never done much more then go to a club and have sex with each other while enjoying the atmosphere, which we re-live when we get home , when it is successful. The only problem I have found (in Spain where we live) is that often we are a lot younger then the others at the clubs. We are 33 and 36 years old. And many places here the age seems to be 50+ sometimes 60+, up to 50 is good but when the others are at our parents age, it can feel too much of an age gap. Best regards
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