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About adamgunn

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    Adam Gunn
  • Birthday 12/27/1948

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    Couple.
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    Pittsburgh
  • Swinging Experience
    My friend and I have been swinging since the turn of the millennium.
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    xx/xx/xxxx

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    sextiescouple
  • Favorite Club(s)
    DJs Island, Party at Scouts

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  1. The newly announced software that will scan nude pictures on an iPhone has been very badly represented in many media articles, making it sound like it's a huge invasion of privacy. Here's the facts about it. It will only be done on minors. It will only be done if the parents have set it up; it's opt-in, not universal. If a kid under 13 tries to open up an abusive photo, their parents will be notified. If a kid from 13-17 tries to open such a photo up, they will be told maybe they shouldn't do it. There is NO impact to anyone older than 18. The new ability is simply a tool for parents to monitor the on-line practices of their Read this balanced article: Apple's New Feature That Scans Messages for Nude Photos is Only for Children, Parental Notifications Limited to Kids Under 13 https://www.macrumors.com/2021/08/05/apple-communication-safety-children-only/
  2. Our very first night at a swing club there was a very hot woman in a wheel chair; we didn't talk to them that night, we sort of found a clique. A few months later I had a fifteen minute discussion with her, she was very interesting. Unfortunately, her husband and my wife weren't into each other, there was probably a twenty year difference between us.
  3. I simply don't understand why people want to keep 'I'm a social nudist' a secret. Swinging, yes, but what clothes you choose to wear (or not wear,) simply shouldn't be an issue IMHO.
  4. As the wife, you are in control. After ensuring your husband is feeling happy and included (which should. be easy if he's into this,) the only true responsibility is to ensure that you have fun. Discuss with your husband before the first meet that you intend to flirt with the man, and let him know that you intend to draw the man into a liaison. That he should not feel you are 'ignoring' him, simply that for both your pleasure you will be interacting with your potential lover more than you will him. Have a safe word that he can say to slow things down if he is uneasy. Make sure it is unique enough that you are certain to hear it. If he says it, start paying more attention to your husband, find out what the issue is before going back to full-on flirting. However, unless you hear that word, have the belief that what you are doing is fine with your husband - it's his responsibility to say it, not yours to anticipate it. Take the flirtation as far as you want to, as far as you are comfortable with. If you decide that you want to take it as far as going to a private place and getting naked, try to have a short conversation with your husband as to your intention, let him agree with it. As far as knowing if/when you are ready, it's really easy. If the juices are flowing and there are no doubts, you're ready! Best of luck.
  5. Ooops, I momentarily got her confused with Anne Boleyn. My deepest apologies, and thank you for pointing out my error.
  6. Yawn. These are exceptions. And ALL of them were living in a male dominated society, which was my point . . . And now that I come to think of it, the four examples are actual proof of how women were discriminated against. Cleopatra was not a puppet ruler of Egypt, her title was imposed upon her by first Julius Caesar then Marc Anthony. (And when he was about to be deposed, she took her own life rather than be subjugated.) Marie Antoinette was a plaything of Henry the VIII, when he was done with her he had her head cut off. Both Catherine and Elizabeth were indeed effective rulers, but they came to power ONLY when there was a power vacuum, and the men couldn't agree on which of them was the better ruler, so they let the women in, thinking they could depose them.
  7. You make a great point. Of course, this all comes from the male dominated societies that have flourished in the past. Along with the ability to have as many sexual partners as a man likes (as long as they aren't other men,) other practices such as abuse of women, the inability of a woman to own property or inherit or vote were all signs of such societies. And so, the stories of women who had multiple lovers didn't make it into media (which until fairly recently was all printed.) We are changing. We can debate why until we're blue in the face (and many have,) but it's true. In western society, women are more able to control their lives (including sexual patterns( than they ever have. Is it perfect, is the revolution over? Of course not, and it probably won't ever be. But I think we're on the way there.
  8. You need, first of all, to be on the same page, this happens through conversation. I suggest you take the mojoupgrade.com quiz together, that will get the talk started. Idaho gave great advice, expect that if she is interested it will be a long time before she's ready to try something in real life.
  9. We separate at house parties and sometimes at our club. Our only 'rule' (if you care to call it that,) is that the first time of the night when we do full swap, the two of us are together. After that, we're on our own. I expect my wife to flirt heavily, that's how we get the majority of our couples, so it's fine with me. But, I find the "She asked me with her eyes, and I accepted with my body language" to be a recipe for disaster. It's very easy to misinterpret body language. I'd advise her to actually come over and say, "you want to do these people?"
  10. From the CDC site: you should be vaccinated regardless of whether you already had COVID-19. That’s because experts do not yet know how long you are protected from getting sick again after recovering from COVID-19. Even if you have already recovered from COVID-19, it is possible—although rare—that you could be infected with the virus that causes COVID-19 again. Studies have shown that vaccination provides a strong boost in protection in people who have recovered from COVID-19. Learn more about why getting vaccinated is a safer way to build protection than getting infected. You mentioned propaganda?
  11. We do - the Friday after Thanksgiving we finally decided to do something, we went to a Swinger's club.
  12. Can't read it without a subscription. Want to post a PDF or summarize?
  13. I like something you can laugh at, a double entendre . . .
  14. We may see a temporary increase in attendance at swingers events, due to pent-up demand. I feel that in a relatively short time, two to three years, we'll have about the same percentage of the population who are active swingers as before the pandemic.
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