I was in almost the same situation. I must say it sounds like it is possible. You must communicate a lot, know what she wants herself. I wanted watch her with another man for years, and it finally happened and more than once. It is very awesome I must say. do not rush her tho, also you never mentioned her age. When women get older 40's to 50's and still have a decent body they tend to open up. My wife was 50 before she finally tried it. Be patient be patient. Remember all jealousy cannot be. We are never away from each other, no seperate rooms, no seeing somebody with out the other involved. We have been married over 30 yrs. We do it for fun. I like to watch her and she likes to watch me. LOL Good luck!
