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Bob250 last won the day on December 25 2016

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  1. BTW I showed your posts to my GF, who IS, in fact, bisexual, and she says that you should be concentrating on your relationship with your BF....and the bisexuality issue can wait until you have a clear, honest, understanding of each others boundaries and desires. THEN see what happens.. Do ONE thing at ONE time, don't try to confuse the issues.
  2. Lioness, I would pass on the Rose Bowl party if I were you. Lessee.... you will be there with your Boy Friend that you are trying to reconcile with.... the girl you are having sexual feelings about will be there...and possibly the guy you cheated on your bf with will be there...plus alcoholic beverages...... in an excited group setting........Gee.....what could possibly go wrong? Maybe a better idea would be to go somewhere alone with your BF and do some communicating and bonding...and leave off the partying until AFTER you are on the same page> Maybe?
  3. I would also state again, that IF you can get your BF to discuss what happened, and If you are honest with him , as you have been honest with us posters, I think that you can definitely work this out. THEN, you can discus boundaries for your relationship. One thing I am constantly amazed by, are people who get into relationships and will discus every detail, from financial to child-bearing, to the color of paint on the walls, but never discus sexual issues, beforehand? That would seem to me to be a "no-brainer".
  4. Lioness, you will recall that in one of my first posts, I said that your BF would have more of a problem with you having sex with the man, than he would with you having sex with the girl. This should clue you in to which issue is the more important. Your sex with the girl...or your cheating with another man. Those posters who are advising you to deceive you partner aren't doing you any favors, they are setting you up for serious relationship problems , in the future. Let me state again, in BOTH a vanilla or a swinger relationship, honesty is the ONLY way for that relationship to be a positive one. Nobody here can show that a relationship based on deception is , in any way , a good thing. YOU DID THE RIGHT THING, and don't let anyone tell you different.
  5. Nobody should have to be applauded for being honest, and nobody should be surprised by people who view cheating as a deal breaker. If Lioness wanted to have a bisexual fling to satisfy her curiosity, then she should NOT be in an exclusive relationship , at the same time. If you are honest, then you don't have to end up like Lioness.
  6. I disagree. I think it is important to get everybody's likes and dislikes out of the way , beforehand. I do agree , however, that it can be done in a polite and courteous manner.
  7. I have relatively few pet peeves. I don't like to touch other men or their cum. I prefer not to discus politics or religion. I don't appreciate people who complain about my appearance. I have a big dick and I'm fairly hairy....get used to it or go someplace else. But I'm usually fairly polite in my refusal. Other than that, I'm good to go
  8. DKcouple, sorry about my post, it is meant to be amusing, and not offensive. In point of fact, I have done the same kind of thing on posts about shaving or waxing pussies. I have a very low threshold for silliness. I tend to view body modifications as a fairly silly activity. But, I do know that there are people who view it in a more serious vein. So, sorry again, and carry on.
  9. LMFAO. Are there actually people who are worried about the color of their butthole? If so,My suggestion would be fleshtone spray paint. Or possibly waterproof crayons. I've got it, a replacement poophole made of fleshtone silly putty, or plastic gel.
  10. Lioness, this post bothers me. are you saying that if you had only cheated with another man, you would not have been honest about it with your BF? If that is the case, you are definitely not LS material. Honesty being the hallmark of the life style. So stop feeling sorry for yourself, and lose the mindset of lying. Deceit is NEVER the right choice for a swinger. I do not know of a single deceptive person or habitual liar who is in a good relationship or ever will be. You are responsible for all of this situation. You made the initial bad choice to cheat, and everything afterwards is a result of your initial bad decision. Once you cheated, you had the choice to be honest or to lie. You chose the truth, which is definitely the right choice. It shows you are maturing as a person. It may not seem so now, but your integrity as a person is way more important than a couple of nights alone.
  11. Well, Lioness, you did the right thing, but it turned out wrong. Every single one of us, here, have done the same thing..and probably had the same result. It sucks...yes, but it will suck a whole lot less, as time goes by. You have to spend a few nights alone, but how does that compare with spending your life with somebody who has a completely different set of values and sexual urges than you do? I agree with cplnuswing in that you are now free to be the person you are, instead of hiding yourself and your desires from your partner, possibly forever. If I were you I would explain the situation to your BF one more time, and if he is not receptive, begin the adventure.
  12. Padoc is spot on. I don't want to give the impression that most women in the LS act like my tool is anything special. I was talking about women , in general .
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