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Heing&Sheing

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About Heing&Sheing

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    heing&sheing
  • Birthday 10/18/1978

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Knoxville, TN
  • Interests
    Dogs, natural health, classic cars, tractors, local/family history,
  • Occupation
    Tech2
  • Swinging Experience
    FWB, MFM & full couple swap, same room. 6 months as of of October 2015
  • Anniversary
    04/18/1998

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  • SLS Name
    HeingandSheing

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  1. I love your profile name, I couldn't believe that someone else hadn't taken that name before you two got it!

    Regards,

  2. We get those too! So rude! I just delete them. Actually I added a "must include in your message to us" phrase buried in our SLS profile. If the 1st message don't include it, then I delete them out of hand. I think I saw that tip on this site at some point. It at least proves that the person (s) at least read our profile. -She
  3. I marked no one knows on the survey then remembered that my brother may know. When we signed up on SLS, there was my brother & his wife! I didn't say anything to him, but about a week later their profile was gone. We have never spoken of it. My children do not know & hopefully wont ever. I think my daughter would be more accepting of it than our son, but what we do in oyr sex life is nine of their business. None of the rest of my family knows or hubby's family either. They are all super conservative & would be judgemental of us. We live in a community where about 75% are related to my husband. And besides, our sex lives are none of anyone's business! As for friends, out first 3 some was with a vanilla friend, who is still my FWB. None of my other vanilla friends know & I would not feel comfortable with them knowing. If directly asked by friends or family, it would depend on who's doing the asking as to whether we would lie or tell them.
  4. Oh I HAVE to chime in on this one! My first experience was with a guy with a rather large penis (11 in). Every one since have been of average size, 4.5-7 in, and I MUCH prefer the normal sized ones! An "average" pens is much more fun, to suck and fuck. I love a good hard pounding from behind and an oversized pens can be painful even during normal intercourse, if the guy is not careful. My FWB is on the smaller size & I love how he works it!! Hubby's is on the larger size of average(but still average) & it is heavenly. It's more about the attention you pay the woman & how attentive you are to what gets her going that matters. Just be yourself & have fun! -She
  5. Hubby had never been a jealous one. When he went away to Army basic training g while we were still dating he told me to "have a fun summer, just don't bring home anything I'll have to feed later on". Watching porn together the multiple partner scenes always got us hot & then I had a dream about having sex with both him & his brother! I told him about it & he was turned on by the idea.(no I never have been with his brother) we fantasized about it for years as life happened. This year our youngest child started driving & working so we had a bit of empty nest feeling, had been working on our communication so naturally became really open about our fantasies & that led to talking about swinging, researching & I ended up here. Our 1st experience was with a male friend of ours & it was awesome, he is still my FWB, then we joined SLS & have met a few couples & played with ones we hit it off with. Meeting a new couple tomorrow night & we are really excited! -She
  6. Not out at a party or event, but the first couple we saw when we logged on to SLS for the first time was my brother & his wife. Not a week later their profile was removed. We have seen each other since but have not discussed it. It's kind of funny that my brother was the one that seems embarrassed, he has always been the wild one & much more liberal in his viewpoints. -She
  7. The first couple profile I saw when we first signed up on SLS was my brother & his wife. I'm sure he recognized me in my profile pic despite only half my face showing because he gave me a sly wink the next time we saw one another in person. Nothing was ever said (yet ) and their profile is gone now. Maybe it freaked him out to see his sister on there! Lol. I'm sure I was the last person he expected to see. I'm sure it will get brought up next time we have a private conversation. No I would not play with even just his wife. I would possibly consider playing with my hubby's brother. After all a very sexy dream I had many years ago about hubby & his brother both doing me at the same time, that I shared with hubby & he was really turned on by the thought of me fucking his brother, was the catalyst for us to share more swappping/threesome/moresome fantasies and eventually led us to this lifestyle. But fear that it wouldn't be as non-dramatic in real life with involving the brother has kept us from pursuing that particular fantasy. Some things may just be better off staying fantasy. -She
  8. We have zero certs. We do not ask for them & don't really care if we get any or not. Some people seem all about them & some seem seem to forget that certs exist therefore don't do them. What I don't like is that some use the certs to show off their "notches", some only cert for people they currently like & some for what they are actually for - to certify that a person/couple is real & shows up & is what they represent themselves to be. The latter would be the only certs I would accept if I ever did accept any. -She
  9. I have had to be quiet while having sex for most of the past 25 years (my total time of being sexually active) due to parents, then kids. Our youngest turned 16, we bought him a vehicle & he has been away working all summer. It has been a sexual revolution for hubby & I! (and we began swinging which upped the overall excitement too). Wow, I never knew how much I was holding back & suppressing till this past year! I am new able to let go, buck, clutch and yes, scream, not to mention all the other sounds hubby says I make when the O's start coming continuously... Hubby is quite the smartass (my male FWB also) and will say afterwards "Well, I hope I was able to get you off at least once". Lol. Sorry your first experience with the LS was such a "dud". I hope you will have more enjoyable viewing experiences on your next adventures! -She
  10. I love the forums here on Swingersboard! I tried the ones at SLS but quit them as there was some bashing & negativity on some of the threads there. I have never seen that here. I feel comfortable posting & commenting here & have learned so much that helped hubby & I avoid mistakes as we were jumping into this lifestyle. -She
  11. I like eyes, arms/shoulders, & legs of men. Of women I like curvy overall shape, eyes & hair. Hubby likes the overall face & he is picky, he's not just into the model beautiful face but there has to be a certain shape & symmetry to a womans face to be attracted. He detests women's hair that is all pulled tightly back from the face or in a tight bun.
  12. I didn't see any porn until I was 19 years old. I've got a lot to catch up on, lol.
  13. Books, then on the job training! Hubby learned from about age 6,from his much older brother's porn collection and in his late teens was seduced and "fully educated" by one of his friend's moms. Maybe this is why he prefers older women! (Continue reading for my long explanation) First I read in a "tween" series of books (Trixie Belden Mysteries) a scene where Trixie finally kissed her crush, Jim. There was also some ambiguous groping described. About that time, I was about 11, my mom gave me "the talk" rather conservative & uninformative (or maybe I just blocked details out due to embarrassment ) at about 12 or 13 I was a voracious reader & on top of all the other books I read I started picking up and reading romance novels I found laying around, at yard sales etc. I would read the more explicit scenes over & over. I then progressed to kissing "boyfriends" and then making out at ballgames and any chance I could get. At 14 I lost my virginity to a guy with an 11 inch cock (no joke) and discovered I LOVED having sex. So we fucked like rabbits. I was very naive and trusting and he was supposed to be using a condom every time but I was so desperate to get him inside me that I didn't check. Well he wasn't and I became pregnant. We eventually broke up, I had my daughter at 15 years of age and after that all the boys thought that just because I had a baby that I would put out that turned me off sex for the most part for years. Never did have any truly good sex (except for the times baby daddy and I had a fling)until I met my husband. We have read books, watched movies and explored each other for 18 years now and just this year have begun swinging. Sex education is never over, we are always learning! So that was how I learned about sex.
  14. We take grammar into account, but a few mistakes does make a deal breaker. I am not perfect in my typing, especially when I'm on my phone. What does irritate me is when I receive a message on SLS that is comprised of complete text-speak. I just delete them with no response. -She
  15. Great question! Our first swing experience was with a vanilla FWB & didn't go quite as expected, it was hot but as he is Vanilla with capital V, we weren't able to get the full MFM experience but have since worked out the expectations for that playmate & all is good there. Honesty, understanding & communication were keys to getting everyone comfortable & it is working great. For our first full couple swap we chose an experienced LS couple, thinking they could "break us in right". We were somewhat intimidated at first. That playdate was good and we learned a lot, especially about what we were looking for. They were more of the sex, ok done, get dressed & get out type while we are more into hanging out talking on the bed afterwards, maybe how about round 2! Not that they were rude or anything thats just what works for them. Our second couple(one experienced one newish) we were more compatible with in what everyone wanted. So thats our few experiences with differences. I wouldn't say that one is better than the other(fellow newbies versus experienced ) just to keep communicating with your SO about your expectations, boundaries & desires & have fun! -She
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