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  1. Well, I said I was gonna give you an update. The update is that we decided to open to polyamory. Mrs P just went on another date, and Mr. O has a date tonight with a lady and another date next week with another lady in a poly relationship. So, it's a little departure from the "swinging" part, but I think this works better for us. This is Mr. O writing now. Now if admins would move this to more appropriate thread like polyamory or something that'd be much appreciated.
  2. Mrs. P here! He definitely 100% knows that I'm married with four kids. He's not pushy at all about setting things up. And I ALWAYS check with Mr. O several times before accepting a date.
  3. Yeah, he seems to be in an open relationship himself and his wife apparently dates other guys. I can't verify that, but I trust my wife, she has always been way better judge of character than me
  4. Hi everyone, It's been about two years, I think, since we had our first swinging experience with a couple. We posted that experience in a thread on this board. Since then, we had our 4th child and we didn't really have any free time to go have any more fun. Mrs P was a full time mom at home raising children. Anyway, recently, Mrs P started working, she made some friends at work that she started to go out with once a week. After all the crap she had to deal with concerning kids, I thought she deserved it. However, my kinky side always imagined her flirting with other guys while she was out and my imagination would be just going wild. I watched some porn, read the hotwife posts on the forums, and fantasized about her going out with other guys and having sex with them. Naturally, eventually I asked her if she would have wanted to do that. At first she was kinda saying it would be fun but I don't think she really thought I was serious. After I brought it up a few more times, she realized that I was serious and she started thinking about it. She had a hard time trying to act indifferent to the thought, but I could tell that the idea was exciting to her. Anyway, she made a profile on a dating app and she started looking for guys. It didn't take long before one guy caught her imagination. He was well spoken, educated guy, a science teacher, and his manners just knocked her out of the park, after some messaging back and forth they exchanged the phone numbers and they've set up a date. That was last Thursday, March 9 that he drove into town and she went out to meet him at a local restaurant. She was a nervous wreck and I couldn't contain my excitement (and a hard on) Wow. So that was it. She left the house and they met at the restaurant. I was waiting to see her text messages and my mind was just going wild. Soon after they've met she texted me and said "omg, he is so cute." and I just kept holding my breath anxiously waiting for more messages till I was blue in the face. An hour or so later, they've had a couple of drinks and she texted me and said "I wish he would sit by me and kiss me" and shortly after another text came and she said: "we kissed." I thought I would lose my mind by then. After that there she stopped texting for a while and I just had all kinds of thoughts going through my mind. It was around midnight when she finally texted me and said: " I'm coming home" After she came home she was wet as fuck and she told me I need to eat her out right now lol. Of course, I went downtown and started eating her out and she started sucking my cock. She started telling me that after they left the restaurant they hang out in his car and fondled each other. He had a big bulge in his pants and she released that tension by letting his thick cock out and sucking on it. He said that he has hard time cumming like that, but she managed to prove him wrong by making him cum in her mouth shortly thereafter. So, we both came while she was telling me this story and it was pretty intense. Today, while she was at work, she texted me and said that they set up another date for next Friday. This time I think they will get a room in a hotel and spend the night together. I am very excited that she is so happy and that she gets to have so much fun, but now I'm also freaking out a little bit. Well, I would appreciate some insight from the veterans in here, and I will probably have another story for you next week.
  5. I was wondering the same thing. I think it's pretty obvious that they would have to be the friends "in the lifestyle" otherwise I don't know how the hell it could happen.
  6. My second starts pre-k on Tuesday. I feel nothing but excitment for her. She is extremely outgoing, so I think she's going to love it. But I also have two more little ones at home. I can see myself feeling the same way you do once #4 starts pre-k.
  7. I have really great orgasms from missionary, but I have only ever had an orgasm a handful of times from behind. My favorite way to orgasm is intercourse, so that makes doggy style/from behind one of my less favorite positions. But I do agree, it takes some position adjustments to get everything just right with missionary.
  8. We've discussed the possibility of solo dating. Oddly enough, I am more okay with the thought of O doing it than myself. I think he would be more capable of checking any romantic feelings at the door than I would be. Keep us updated on how it goes!
  9. I definitely think, for us, it was a changing view of marriage and, as JAPrufrock said, ourselves that allowed swinging to be a possibility.
  10. BUT... you specifically quoted me and questioned my p.o.v. on this without knowing anything about my religious status. I answered the OP's question which asked for personal opinions vs what our pastors and church congregations might think. I stand by what I said whether any priest agrees with me or not. And whether or not the church sees it as a sin is another conversation.
  11. When did religion come into this? We actually did not get married in a church by minister, so I don't think your point is valid for this particular argument.
  12. The actual definition of foresake really has nothing to do with sex. It's to abandon or give up. Even if we have sex with a few other people, we've chosen each other. We have abandoned the idea of a life with someone else. He has given me a part of himself that as a nonpoly couple, I assume he won't be giving to anyone else. Our marriage and life together is much more than just sex. I don't necessarily consider that vow to have changed or been broken by swinging with my consent.
  13. I think I would probably say something along the lines of "Nice picture. It's nice to see who we're talking to." Or something very neutral while still polite and obviously showing that you're not uninterested. Idk maybe it's not friendly enough, but I have a very hard time lying and acting like it's a crazy sexy pic too, if it's just...eh.
  14. Well, now I guess I need to do some more digging around the site and see if there are any older threads that discuss this issue. This is the second or third time I've read something along the lines of what JandK said. I'm curious to understand why bisexuality is so frowned upon when it comes to men in the LS, but so well received, expected even almost, in women. That seems very judgmental and closed-minded coming from a group of people who seem to pride themselves in being so open-minded and accepting. I'm not referring to people here at the Swingers Board in particular, but the LS in general with that last comment.
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