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  1. CoupleInMD79.... It is like we are on parallel tracks! We'd still love to meet another FWB couple where we all click and can all play together same and separate room. (We have one right now) we've meet many nice couples but having a hard time getting a four way connection sexually. We are considering letting each other play alone a bit. Still in discussion phases. He met someone awhile ago and she played separately and I recently met someone and we are considering allowing this. What rules does anyone on forum have for this type of scenario. What issues have arisen? What are things to discuss. We are trying to think about it from all angles but would love any input.
  2. I agree! I am not quite a newbie and I struggle a bit...and it's funny. It's not on my lady parts...I've had a lot of infertility issues and such so a lot of weight fluxuation and two sections and well stomach skin at my age just doesn't bounce back. I am HWP but skin in certain areas aren'tmy favorite! I try to view myself on a whole not just certain parts. I will say that connection with people and going more of s friends with benefits route has worked for us on many levels...but comfort and trust is huge and then it all becomes sexy and fun and enjoyable! Good luck and acsensuate the positive!!
  3. We have done both and we both prefer separate. A nice way to compromise is to start together...for us it has nothing to do with jealousy or "doing our own thing" it is exactly like what intution897 says...its just a lot and hard to connect or concentrate on one thing...I feel more uninhibited alone...but we still feel like we are swinging and for days we excitedly discuss the details, sights, sounds, positions etc...we hold nothing back, it just has seemed to go better for us this way. Not opposed to same but it has been better separate for us.
  4. Work friends won't work, vastly different careers. We only feel the need to explain because of a few close friends that if I was suddenly on Facebook in pictures or just hanging out with new people, they would say (in a nice friendly way) who are these people and how did you meet them? So we are both feeling like we need a story. We both wish the work thing would work...super easy then...but it won't. Keep suggestions coming. I really appreciate it!
  5. We've become quite close with another couple and we have zero mutual friends and don't live in same city. How can we explain our new friendship? Both of us couples are really starting to worry about this, we need to be discreet.
  6. I have PCOS as well, I have always had fairly regular cycles, but all the other fun stuff that accompanies that...so sorry for you! Also, hope the biopsy turns out OK!! I would say still go and have fun...alot can be done even if full intercourse is off the table and alot of fun can be had!!
  7. Needing advice...after a meet up date, if all goes well how do end the night. (Besides the obvious!). Hugging, Kissing, shake hands, how up front are you about taking the next step? Also meeting someone totally new what type of questions do you usually ask? Our plan is to be ourselves and see if chemistry is there and go with the flow, but we do have questions etc...how much do you ask that first night?
  8. At this point I don't think this is an arena for your relationship. It's very new and your past wounds aren't fully healed... I think have fun exploring it thought sexy fantasy talk, watching/ reading stories etc...Let the topic or idea of swinging be fun. When and if that settles in, take the next step. If this were me , I wouldn't do it now. Hoping this doesn't sound harsh, it isn't meant to.
  9. PM me if you have any questions or want to talk! We are new to this as well!
  10. PandO your needs are very similar to ours. We soft swap with one specific couple for now. It is incredibly exciting very flirty and fun. Also sexually satisfying despite not going to full swap. We meet every few months and text sexy flirty texts to keep spark going until the next visit works out. Hang in there it's been worth the time and effort for us.
  11. I think both of you should make the rules. Both of you are allowed to ask for what you want and both of you are allowed to not feel ok about things. I think the "NO" has to win. If one wants something and one doesn't the "NO" is the deciding point. You can always review after time goes one. Being able to communicate is a MUST.
  12. We have only done same room swap, however, we are only swapping with one couple and are going to try our first separate room swap in a few weeks. I am excited to try it. I will keep you all posted. Anything we should know before hand?
  13. We just entered the soft swap lifestyle in the last 6mos. We have complete trust in each other and we are open to anything except kissing and penetration. We love how heightened we feel when there is something you can't do. We've had a lot of sexy fun, plenty of oral, orgasms and naked touching. Our sex life has completely taken off! I know many people feel soft is boring, but in our case, it is NOT! Enjoy!
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