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About Shore2Please

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    Swingers Board Addict
  • Birthday 05/02/1978

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    Couple
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    New Jersey
  • Swinging Experience
    6 years
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  1. He would be happy to call you to discuss our sexual life. Neither of us are up for sainthood yet, we aren’t ready for beatification. My feeling is men are excited much easier by visuals, my husband is aroused equally. He isn’t leaving the room if I’m with another woman or if there’s an opportunity for group sex. Do you find most gangbangs, the original post, are more for the men, the women there for the entertainment? I can understand a woman with two men, I have participated, I don’t fully understand wanting a gang.
  2. I chuckle reading that I am married to a great man, I am but not for the reason you give. I give him equal freedom to enjoy the way I do. When visiting our friends he spends the night alone with the wife with all the freedom they want. Unlike many swingers I don’t find great pleasure watching or being watched. We don’t compete for attention or have a need to put on a show. Over the years since meeting our friends I know I have grown in knowing we aren’t cheating or me worrying how he is enjoying other women. Our excitement comes from only seeing these friends a few times a year keeping the anticipation fresh.
  3. The most fortunate part is we enjoy the things we do. Sexually foreplay, cuddling and being next to him is the best part. Multiple times is just not relevant, quality over quantity. I am satisfied when we get time together without being rushed. We aren’t 20 and our bodies have changed , they continue to change along with our sexual needs. His refraction, my lubrication and our frequency has changed. We don’t play with others often by any standard. We have one couple, I call the husband my vacation husband. Maybe because he is like my husband, unrushed, caring , fun, smart with fabulous human qualities is the reason I give him the best I can. The very first time I was with him he kept going even after ejaculating, he kept checking on my pleasures. I cherish that first time and continue to cherish the times we meet.
  4. Pretty sure he did as did the second bf. Fortunately both my husband and our primary friend are able to have multiple ejaculations during a night. Lucky for me he doesn’t want multi every night and I’m grateful for lubes. Give me one great lover over a lineup any day.
  5. Reading all the posts makes me go Ouch My first Gangbang was being with two guys on the same night feeling trampy and sore. I had a date in HS that ended up in his bed while his parents were out for the night. I think we did it three times before I went home. Around midnight my beeper beeped from another guy I dated. No texts back then I had to call him on my bedroom phone. I made up a story to my mother about going to my good friend’s house ending up at the boy’s house. I didn’t even shower from the first guy and the second had no clue what I did before him. I can’t even think what being with a dozen partners would do to me or even think about DNA being left. Give me one great lover for a night and I am happy.
  6. I find gay men are very outgoing and sociable yet never was approached sexually.
  7. We had our first swap on an innocent cruise after going to a nude beach with other couples we met on the cruise. I had no intention to do anything more, no sex was discussed, no swinging, no swapping, the nudity was only because we figured we would never see these people again. I still blame liquor, I wasn’t drunk, that allowed me to agree to sleep with another man.
  8. We enjoy separate rooms for a number of reasons including the freedom of being myself. I was extremely jealous and never wanted to watch my husband, happier to just know he was having fun. It took time to be able to watch and be watched, he knows of my jealous streak which has lessened not disappeared.
  9. Getting pregnant was a genuine concern immediately after our first swap. I knew I was protected, I also know no protection is foolproof. I know that pregnancy with the form we used has led to heartbreak with friends of ours who are not in any outside relationships. Our situation was we kept the option of future children open preventing anything permanent. That first night my main concern was more disease, less pregnancy. When I asked my husband about his night and contraception he was only able to say he guessed she took precautions. We had the most intimate nights and never thought to discuss a prime concern. We had the talk way later along with the what if. Made us think way more. Years later, I still am protected though my husband had a vasectomy, my fear of others and what ifs. What does bother me is I am never asked about contraception, men just expect the woman to deal with it. As I stated, we have discussed and we agree what actions we need to do if something crazy goes wrong.
  10. This isn’t an answer some want to hear, we enjoy being alone in separate rooms. Nobody gets jealous, nobody has to hold back, everyone is free to be themselves. My swing partner lover does things my true lover husband doesn’t do which makes swapping so much fun. I don’t want every sex partner to do the same thing. I also don’t hide what I do with others to the man I’m with for life.
  11. We met on a cruise and swapped before the cruise was over. No plans, never thought of it before, it just happened.
  12. We had that one special friends we played with that were the only friends we needed. They lived far enough away that our meetings were extra special and all the excitement I needed. Everyone knows that every partner is different in how they do or move when allowed to explore. Our new sexual lover brought me to heights in a different way from my husband. Different not saying better. These friends opened up my sexuality exploring a side I never even knew I had. We still have that Special Couple, as you labeled your friends yet we have explored outside of that relationship against my original ideas. I was very happy with what we had with them with no reason to expand until we did. My suggestion is to go with what you are comfortable with. Try to dispose of any guilt feelings which was my original halt. We are not active like others who post we just play when occasions happen like the stars aligning. I found occasional new experiences are indeed exciting.
  13. Good question. Our first experience started with another couple we met on vacation. We just struck up a conversation with fellow cruisers on a Caribbean cruise. We are outgoing and spoke to plenty of people that week, talk being nonsexual and very general. When talk turned to going to a nude beach I thought more about my own flaws, less about their attractiveness. Thinking it now in terms of the question it was personality that brought us together, I never thought sex was ever involved until it did. Being honest with myself I doubt I would have ended up in bed with him if he wasn’t attractive. We don’t go looking as our other experiences were more personality driven, none of us are perfect models.
  14. The best recommendations I received were from the women I work with. I found out about that suction toy making it a now favorite for me. Another recommendation sounded horrible, in reality it is strange and is much different, an e-stim toy that causes shocks and muscle contractions which in turn stimulate to orgasm quicker.
  15. So many memories, good and not great ones. I try to remember that first night as a great night that lead to more fun and memorable times. I also try to erase the uncomfortable times that is all part of mostly positive change in our life. It’s many years now from when I saw my husband with the woman he slept with, naked in what was my bed. Even if my night was great I still had that jealous feeling of seeing her. My husband assured me he was thrilled that I had a good night. He asked me more, I didn’t ask him much. Our next day play has bothered me for years, even if I try to play it off. I had been the brunt of some jokes the times we met them later on. My husband enjoyed watching at my expense me having sex or a man having sex with me, totally different from the man I was with the night before. He enjoyed watching me be uncomfortable having a woman rubbing on my mouth for my first time, enjoyed being in a woman who orally made me orgasm when I didn’t want to. I still wish that next day didn’t happen the way it did, a day we no longer talk about, and now a day that changed me for what I like to say for the better. Better because it prepared me for things we eventually did together and alone.
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