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I know this is a swinger board site not a porn board site. But I think the Answer here will be more honest than a porn board site. With all the documentary out there lately about the dark side of the entertainment industry such as former Disney/nickelodeon child stars to the dark side of the music industry to the comedy industry and everything else in between. As more former top tier stars both female and male are coming out and regrets their porn careers in this age of social media. Too many too named and given X reason why. Yes, Porn too has its dark side. I don’t deny that. Too many people in it die young and get into the drugs scene. We are 2024, people should know the dangers of drugs. Also once you do porn it there forever. Even if you do one scene , it will be there forever. I still have a hard time believing that people are still naïve in believing it won’t. Years years ago I saw the Belladonna interview with Diane Sawyer. Not long ago after that Belladonna did another interview saying that they took a lot out of context. Soon after that, it was the beginning of those porn documentary about porn and pornstars. I don’t recall his name, I think he was either a porn agent or something in one of those porno documentary, but what he said stayed with me all those years ago. Only less 1% of new girls per year will be successful. And porn is much like the wrestling industry. A lot of it is fake, most of it is all scripted. Yes the sex is real but it plan out. Yes there a lot of backstage potential stuff, a lot of double standards. Yes I do think agents need to be honest to the their girls. Instead of doing false promises to them. But girls also need to realize also that need to put in the effort to, if they want to make it big. They have to earn their spot. Some women to my knowledge have also praised the porn industry for helping them out and give them better lives. Sophie Dee got out living in poverty, Leah Luv was able to pay for her son medical expenses when he had cancer as a baby. To name a few. To me porn is porn. It what it is. Another part of business in the entertainment industry. Plain and simple. Yes I agree that some porn themes should not be accepted such as rape scenario theme from Kink. Also there are some porn that I question the legitimacy of the safety of the women and men in the Eastern European porn industry mainly in Russia and also cam models in Russia and South America. How many of those girls/women and men choose on their own free will to be in that line of work. You can tell on their faces that they don’t want to be there. They are emotionless. Which is sad. But most of it can be quite enjoyable to watch. There are also some many studies on the negative on porn on people. But there are some positive things too. There was a porn documentary I saw in 2020 (filmed before Covid) that I saw that had a group of young adults (both guys and girls) talking about the porn industry what there thought of it. One of guys in the documentary said that gay porn helped him accept his sexuality. And I thought that was pretty cool. Many of the groups took part in seeing the behind the scenes of a porn shoot and talk to the cast of a European porn shoot. Also they got to talk to some anti porn women on showing the violent side of porn, mainly from kink. And many of the young adults of the documentary agree that Kink is not suitable porn. Then at the end of the documentary most of the group took part in a violence against women rally/protest. I think porn help me on my sexual too. First time seeing 2 girls going at it than later on the film it had a 3some. my brain just unlocked itself, hard to put it in words but it felt right. At the end of all this, like I said porn is porn. Another part of business in the entertainment industry. To make it big, it all about luck and putting in the effort. Being there at the right place at the right time. Like any job and life , there the good the bad and the ugly.

I may not be in your age group but done my fair share of travelling to swingers resort in the Caribbean. We are from Canada. We may have different view for safety compare to America's. But basically you have to used common sense. I wouldn't walk the beach at night to meet up people. The resort I recommend for you both, is the Hedonism II. It may be a little pricey, but it may have everything that your looking for in terms what your looking for.

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Not sure how to explain this, but I do the best I can. This past weekend, a good friend of my parents who they swing with for years and 1 of my first swingers partners came over to my place and ask me to help me out with something. His son wants to try the lifestyle. And he asks me if I and my bff can give him his first 3some. I didn’t gave him an answer straight away, I told him I will think about it. His son is 30, recently divorce, no kids. I knew him. I used to babysat him when he was younger when his parents were at parties and that and when my family and invited his family for supper and that. I only seen him once in the last 15 years or so. Last time I saw him was on his wedding night from his ex 5 years ago. He knew his parents were swingers but never felt it was for him at that point, from what the parents told me. I don’t mind doing the favour. They helped me a lot in my early days of the lifestyle. My parents helped me when I asked them if I could try swinging and let me “play” with their friends. I know it’s somewhat embarrassing question to ask your parents and then your parents asking their friends if they want to “play” with their adult children. Same as your friend asking you to ask another friend for a “hook up”. I always consider my swingers friends as a second family and family help each others “within reason”. I am curious how often question like this get asked. Thanks for the reply

Recently I saw old re-run of Playboy "Swing" and saw "Teyha & Stephen" and "Lora and Brett" and both couples both have OnlyFans accounts and a few videos on Pornhub which have dates during 2020. Yes I am award that many places were close and lock down during COVID and I am not sure if they were affected by it. And people need money to make end meat. But now I am questioning the legitimacy of "Swing". Did they "Playboy" get real people/couple or cam models at that time to do there show

If it ok to ask, how old were both of you at the time when you meet. Also did you both played with other people before you 2 meet.

hard to put it in words. He not much of a watcher. He more a doer, which is fine. I am kinda like that as well.

I was already a full time swinger when we meet, I was a unicorn. We meet at the swingers resort Temptation Resort. It was before TripAdvisor got big, he though it was where Temptation Island got film and that. He had no idea it was that kind of resort/hotel. He was there alone while I was with my bff. Ask you could imagine his surprise of the by it. When i saw him, we chichatted. Like his honesty and that. I gave him my number and Facebook. About a month later he called me and ask me out in our first day. By the 3rd one I gave him more details about me and how I got into swinging, and i am not gonna stop. He accepted it and we continued dating. So over time I help him become a swinger. It took a good full year for him to get used to everything. Hardest thing for him was to be around other naked men while they were " playing " with me.

Wow, that rare. I meet several people who are second generation swingers who one of the couple parents are swingers but both the husband and wife parents are swingers that very rare. Like myself, I am a second generation swinger. My husband is not. It took a good full year for him to get used to everything. Also, if it ok to ask, how did you 2 meet since both of you are second generation swingers. Were both of your parents friends.

Sorry, wasn't quite sure if it was or wasn't. I thought was fair question to ask since the documentary tv show showed swingers couples as well. And was wounding if anyone here used their service. I guess no one used them from here since no one gave a real full answer.

I get what your saying, I just have a hard time believe that no one here gave a review on the place itself recently. Not asking to give details on the girls itself and who they been with. Just the review of the place and their experience and maybe a quick estimate. People here ask for options all the time on which swingers resort is best for them and their budget and people give it. My question is about the Bunny Ranch. As this site in this forum itself tell us "Questions about the places swingers go, or need info about a specific swinger club, cruise, etc., post it here." that what I am doing, asking questions. Like I ask, will the whole trip plus the pornstar package for 1 week cost me more than 2 weeks at the Hedo in Jamaica.

That does not really help me per say. Yes I could email the girls and that to get a quote. But what I wanted to know is a quick estimate and reviews from people here who tried their service. Was it worth it, or a big let down and not what you expect it. From what I seen here not many people used them. Many years ago David Copperfield came to Canada, my parents and I were big fans of his and they got tickets to his show, We were extremely disappointed by it. There was nothing new on the show that we went to, all the same tricks that we saw on TV. My parents and I had pretty good seats, it must of cost them a pretty penny at the time. I know there a major different between a magic show and a hiring a pornstar/escourt, but sometimes thing that you really wanted and see, end up being a big disappointment.

Me and my husband are gonna be celebrating are 10th year wedding anniversary this year. And we were thinking of doing something big kinda like a second honeymood. But we do not know where to go. A few years ago (before Covid) we saw the TV reality documentary about the Bunny Ranch and saw what the Bunny Ranch for the first time and thought it was pretty cool especially the pornstar that go into the Ranch. At that time it was Sunny Lane the top named to work at the club. Hubby ask me we should try to go there one day. And I said why not. Having a young child and Covid delayed that chance at the time. Now thing are back to a "new normal" and are child a bit older, we thought we should spoil ourselves. We just do not know if the Bunny Ranch is worth it. We saw people telling the camera that they had fun and that, but there was zero people who gave them bad reviews other than google map and Trip Advisor reviews. I was going over the site and saw the pornstar picking, there were none that we recognize or follow. Minus the airfare and hotel and the other expense for me and my husband how much is the the pornstar package is about. I know I can email to the site itself to get the information but I rather get the info from people who had experience from people here who went there. Will the whole trip plus the pornstar package for 1 week cost me more than 2 weeks at the Hedo in Jamaica. Me and my husband have "played" with local Canadian pornstar at our local club but we always wanted to try a top tier pornstar. Any info and insight would be nice. Thanks in advance.

Sorry for sounding ignorant, but I am not sure what kind of type this person is. A few week ago, me and my husband went to are local club and we meet a lovely lesbian couple. 1 class herself bi and the other les. but the thing is, the les like to have sex with guys. She told us that she has zero romantic interest with guys, she only into women in that department. But still has that need to have sex with guys. With new terms added almost in a yearly basis to the lgbtqia2 how people class themselves, I am not sure how to class her. Is she Bi or Les or something completely different. A few years ago I readied here in a similar situation with 2 guys, but I can not found the topic anymore. Has anyone meet people like this before ? Thank you for your time you all.

I am curious if there ever been a update to this. How was bachelor party if there was one and the wedding itself. Hope everyone had fun