Hi everyone, my wife and I are very open sexually, there is probably little that we haven't tried or talked about, and we both love sex. We are stable, with some problems in the past, but we have moved past that and are very happy together. We communicate very well, and have no issues telling each other our desires.
First thing first, we do have experience with fmf threesomes, we had one friend that we had threesomes with for almost a year, at least once or twice a month, then we had a threesome with another woman one time. My wife is pretty bi curious and loves being with women, I have always been open with this and I have always told her that I don't have to be present if she wants a women on her own. She's not up for that though, she would rather have me there and have a threesome with it, which I am ok with as well.
We have recently talked about swinging, and we are both open to it and excited, but I personally think that we should find a single man and have a mfm threesome first, just to make sure that we can handle it, as I would prefer to take part with her and another man in a straight mfm threesome, not only does the idea turn us both on, but she doesn't want to play with a women without me, and I don't think that I'm comfortable with her playing with a man without me, at least not yet.
My question is, should we find a single man and have a mfm threesome before trying to meet couples, or should we find a couple first, and hope that they are ok with the man joining us, which would be safer and have a better chance of everyone having fun?