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I would be concerned if my lady felt the way you feel toward your husband. It sounds like you don't love him anymore, because you are willing to sacrifice his feelings for your own fun. When your having sex with other guys and not having it at home, that is a red flag for any spouse. Perhaps you should step back from the lifestyle while you guys work through his issue. Not having sex with him is like adding gasoline to a fire. He needs you to step back and show him love and preference to him rather than the lifestyle. I get the feeling from your words, you would rather leave him than the lifestyle. Maybe I am wrong, just my 2 cents.

I had an experience at a house party that I guess could be my confusion or not know how to do deal with it. My wife and I were invited to this house party/birthday party for a couple's wife that had met us one time at another place. My wife is over the top gorgeous to most people and I am little overweight but have a handsome face, beautiful eyes and charisma in my mannerisms. So there were only 10 or so couples invited to this party and when were having conversation with folks and getting to know some of them. That part was a little weird with what later turned out to be a clique of people. At a certain point at the party some of the girls went and put on their slut wear, or nothing at all, and started having fun with each other. We were not quite there yet, when my wife decided to go change into her slut wear because she wanted to get laid. The person that had invited us obviously wanted my wife, which at the time was somewhat ok with me, I guess because I felt like I could get laid too. So I let her go upstairs with him. Well before I know it the other girls that were having fun with each other headed up stairs for their fun. I am pretty much left with women I am not attracted to and not enjoying life because no one that was left was even talking with me. I really felt alone at that point, so I stood away from these folks and just drank my drink, water. When I see one of the girls that had gone upstairs come down go to her husband and the other girl's husband and start having a conversation with her back to me. The guys were listening intently to what she was saying, she then pointed at me over her shoulder, both of the husbands looked at me and the they all proceeded upstairs without saying a word to me. To me they were going upstairs without inviting me on purpose, to exclude me for whatever reason. I felt humiliated and went and sat on the couch alone and getting more and more pissed about the situation. I went upstairs, found my wife and told her I was leaving. She got up and got dressed and we left without saying a word to anyone else. Please give some feedback, or if you have had an experience like this, let me know what you did. The next day I found out from my wife the girls had come upstairs to the room where she and the guy were and the tried to get with her, but she is not bi and didn't allow it, so they went to another room to be alone. feeling