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  1. We have done both, separate rooms - even the whole night with another partner, to all four of us. Each has it's ups and downs - or in's and out's I guess. If both couple are bi, one can get pretty creative with 4 bi people and no clothes on.
  2. Started with a 3some MFF, then went to another 3some MMF. Had that relationship for a couple of years - Ms. CC was one happy camper. We then started looking for other couples. We found a really great gal with one couple, but he turned out to be an ass. She was bi, he was not. A big let down for us both.
  3. Never really thought about it, but on the surface, it doesn't really appeal to me. It would be too competitive and fake. We would rather have a fun wife and husband, much safer that way.
  4. Both Ms. CC or myself always have veto power over the couple we may play with. We also respect the veto power of other couples. If it is a MMF, I without a doubt have absolute veto power. Those are our rules and we never ever never break them. We have a few other rules, but too personal to mention here for general consumption.
  5. LOL! You like your chances....funny! I didn't know Ms. CC was bi until years after we had been married. She was afraid what I would think of her. I knew somehow that I was, just one of those things ya know. First time I gave a male a blowjob, it was with a couple we were swinging with. Problem was, the other male was to embarrassed in front of his girl. However, the first timer I made him cum, was immensely pleasurable to me. The warm liquid quickly filled my entire mouth and I swallowed as fast as I could. I found it very tasty. Ms. CC goes crazy watching me do another guy. As for technique, I simply do to him what I life. Figure we all pretty much enjoy it about the same way. We still have a few other fantasies we are working on as well.
  6. Happened by "accident" in that it certainly was not planned. If I recall, someone started it on a dare or something silly like that. But it sure was fun!
  7. I'm sure like most people, the Ms. and I got started with a 3some, which happened quite by accident...meaning it wasn't planned. It helped that the Ms. is very bisexual and our 1st threesome with was a female. I would suggest you and your GF really discuss this indepth before going any further. Being curious is one thing, taking to the next step is another.
  8. She "kinda liked it" but did you? Next time it should be "her turn" to enjoy another woman. No need in you having all the fun now is there?
  9. Ms. CC goes totally crazy watching me go down on another man, or him going down on me. We've made both wives watch before, and they both admitted it made them hotter than ever. But Ms. CC and I are both bi and know it. If the other couple are both bi (our preferred couple to be with) then all of us being together is about as natural as you can get since no one is hung up on accidently touching the other one in the wrong place. In fact, we have found if you stay with the same couple over a period of time, a really deep friendship develops.
  10. Ms. CC would tell the guy to see if he could perform an anatomically difficult sex act on himself (go fuck yourself). ;-)
  11. Might try this.... Do some role playing with your wife. Have her get all dressed up and "meet her at a bar" and strike up a conversation. You could take it a bit further and both of you create a fictional character and then "date". You would be amazed what you find out about her and yourself if you really get into the full character. After a couple of dates, discuss the character of each other and see if something is amiss. If you are she are honest and really put forth an honest effort, if may pay off in a big way.
  12. We do for sure! Matter of fact, that is generally how it gets started. We never could figure out how one could let someone else have sex with their mate, but not let/allow them to kiss the individual. Besides, watch 2 women start passionately kissing each other and I guarantee you that you will not be able to contain yourself.
  13. Ms CC and I used to get jealous over the simplest of things. Is my cock too small, does he do oral better than I, is she tighter and feel better, can she perform oral better and a thousand other questions. I guess for your first time, it is natural to ask since you now have someone else to compare yourself too. A couple is used to each others styles, techniques and methods. Bring in that first 3rd person and all of a sudden things change. Swinging can strengthen or destroy a marriage. And I guess most couples start out with 3somes. Not to say that is a bad thing, but we have made it a habit to set rules and never ever break them. Three basic rules we have, have served us well over time. 1. If either oppose for any reason, nothing happens. We don't try to talk the other into it, no matter what. We may discuss it later to find out why, but we never break that rule. 2. We never compare or compete against the other. We have had MMF and FMF 3somes. If another male is brought in, I don't compare or ask about his style, technique, size, endurance, etc... Nor does Ms CC ask about her "competition" since that is not what this is all about. For this reason, we generally tend to stay with couples and make friends first. This isn't supposed to be a fuck fest. We don't view swinging as how many guys she can let fuck her, or about how much pussy I can get. Our general attitude is, swinging MAY be a natural progression with another couple IF and only IF things take that direction. We both have to genuinely like the other couple - both of them. 3. Each reserves the right to call it off at anytime, even if in the middle of it all...no questions asked.
  14. Ask her if she has ever thought of making love to another woman. My bet is she has, but she hasn't told you about it. Just an opinion though. She may reply back if you had ever thought of being with another man, so be ready to answer that one. The next step is obvious - another couple. It has been our experiences that most swingers start out with 3somes, mostly F/M/F.
  15. Ms. Cruise and I took our first cruise several years ago. Our kids bought it for us. We had a terrible time the first 2 days. Little did we know that one has to "learn" how to cruise. But once we figured it out, we had a blast. As soon as we got off we told each other we could do that AGAIN! Since that time, we have been on 2 others and have our next one planned for Jan 16 our of Port Canaveral to the western Caribbean. We haven't been there yet and are really looking forward to it even though it's a vanilla cruise. Maybe we will meet another couple our age who enjoys the lifestyle we enjoy, if not that is cool as well. We had not really wanted to do a swingers cruise as that isn't our main goal of cruising. JandJ - we have been thinking about taking a cruise out of Baltimore since that is less than a 2 hour drive for us. Thanks everyone for their thoughts on it. Who knows, we may end up on the same boat one of these days. One can never tell. ;-)
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