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Physically that ratio is about correct. I have used that argument when part of planning for group parties that wanted to exclude single guys. I am married , but the ratio is still good.I think some guys worry about the competition. Being realistic I know that a woman who is really in the mood can destroy 3 guys in a day. Another thing that I point out to the "married only" proponents is that we are all just one heartbeat away from being single, especially as we age.

Setting up something to be manipulative may sometimes work in business. The potential for disaster is too high, as well as dishonest. In this context. From what you have said David was NOT manipulating you. It has always sounded like David is a truly grounded person, for whom this was a genuine and acceptable option, and not someone playing you with the long game. I was just warning not to do this unless this was the case for the OP.

Only do this if it is something that you actually want not as a means to an end.

You handled it well. There are to many unknowns in place to stir the pot.

Other than one that I or someone I trust very well I am about as likely to to even get into a hot tub as I am to swim in their toilet. That includes hotels and clubs. I have made the exception in hotels when the chlorine made my eyes water.

ACCEPT. I strongly suspect. those who knew you and might imagine a chance to participate.

I take it the diabetes is well controlled? My experience with the daily tadalafil was similar to yours. Maybe talk to your doctor about upping the dosage or perhaps just doubling up an hour or so before you plan to play. Like I said do this in concert with your doctor.

I can recognize your dilemma. May I ask how old you are and what kind of shape you are in? I am 73 and depending on the time of year physically I am in shape or not so much. I work outdoors in construction, so winter is not my high exercise time. By summers end all systems are working better. Age is not helping. The head thing also comes into play, as not performing up to my own standard gets into my head, as does tension from jobs sometimes. Exercise a healthy diet and some intentional relaxing activity might just get you past much of this. There are also so many ways to participate and excel that do not require an erection. When we start with a couple it is always soft swing. So far most all have been excited about coming back for more. I thinks many husbands are lacking in these skills for some reason. Post me privately if you wish.

Numex , I was referencing this "now there are kids", as far as sleepovers being more difficult.

Vanillas "go dancing" or whatever all the time. Sleepovers are a bit harder. 40 and 37? You are just ancient.

Hunter, it depends what point the baking is at. If your yeast sponge is perking away you are committed as you are while the bread is rising.

You describe him as forgetful and seemingly unable to shift gears quickly as things change. I am curious. Are these personality flaws or symptoms of some sort of neurological/psychological problem. I sometimes forget when a topic is of no interest to me, even when others find it important.. (This is a flaw) I am increasingly forgetful of things that I wish to recall due to my brain aging and not being as agile as it once was. (Which is not a personality flaw just an imperfection) I am also getting more crochety about things being sprung on me. (This is probably a bit of both) Various PTSD type of things can elicit the things you describe, as can some portions of the autism spectrum. I once had something hit me in a LS situation . It made NO sense to me or my wife. A few nights later, while drifting off to sleep..EUREKA... . Something from very early sexual awareness which was minor ,and long filed away. It was something that was not minor then and beyond my ability to deal with at the time. Suddenly in the midst of an otherwise pleasant LS evening a portion of my mind was suddenly 13-14 years old emotionally distraught. Once I understood it was good for a laugh. Figuring out why his reaction was as it was would be a first place to go. The LS is potentially a complex path. We ALL have histories that may at one point or another blindside us for good or ill.

The best child , in this context, is the one who survives.

I guess you can say that I am prejudiced. That is in accordance to the meaning of the word, from pre judicare, to judge beforehand. I have an onboard suspicion regarding the will, wisdom and intent of one race. I am willing to recognize those to be trusted , but only after vetting. The race? The human one.

Am I to assume from this statement that if you disapproved she would proceed anyway? OR That, in the particular, she makes the choice because she is already assured that you are okay with what she chooses? My wife has an permanent and plenary Green Light from me. She still checks if something, or someone new enters the picture. She is considerate that way, but it is unnecessary and she knows it.