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prinmattus

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About prinmattus

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  • Birthday 05/28/1979

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  1. Wish I could report these to SLS, if anything just to save others the time from contacting people like this. I can just imagine how many more are out there, and all that does for us is give us a ton of extra search results we rather not deal with and we may end up missing someone that is genuine.
  2. Definitely not a new term, I heard this first back in the 90's.
  3. So do you agree the woman we have encountered so far a being a bit deceptive using a single female profile only to say a guy must join in? We think it is, but we're new and thought maybe it's normal or some other reasons people are doing this.. Great point though, clubs do seem like the best bet.
  4. I had a female friend once tell me, she wasn't sure her husband would handle it or if he would get upset, thus making her gun shy even though he gave her assurance to do it and wanted her to. Dunno if that's her case, but an idea.
  5. Hey guys, so far we have been having fun and met some nice couples. We've been looking to meet up with a few bi females only, but having a hard time. 1st Scenario: Profile on SLS is a bi female (not a couple profile) Paid Profile with a few certs We write each other and female informs us she has a male lover who she wants to join in or we can't meet. 2nd Scenario: Profile on SLS is a bi female (not a couple profile) Paid Profile with 2 certs We write each other and female informs us she is married (she did say that on her profile) and wants her husband to join in or we can't meet. We obviously said no, and she's looking for her husband to join she should be using a couples profile so other's aren't tricked into contacting her and wasting their time. 3rd Scenario: Profile on SLS is a bi female (not a couple profile) Paid Profile with 1 cert (cert from a free profile that is possibly fake and used only to give a fake cert) Woman wants to chat outside SLS and we agree to do that, we ask for her number after spending 1-2 hours chatting online and setting up a night to meet. Turns out the number has a voicemail setup in another woman's name (we were given a fake number). We sent her a message letting them know this and make it a point we want to voice verify before anything goes further. What gives? Is there really this much bait and switch or just playing games when it comes to female only profiles? I'm not sure if it's normal for bi females to set up profiles alone (non couple) only to state they want a lover or husband there as well, doesn't make sense and seems like bait and switch. What's your take?
  6. I think you're reading into to it to much. If there were interested, I'm not sure there would be much doubt. It sounds like they're trying to be respectable and let you guys down easy. I wouldn't pressure em to much, I think doing that leads people to start ignoring folks altogether as they rather not deal with the hassle of explaining every response to you. If I were to get the message, I would know off the bat they aren't into us as much as we are into them. Also, since they are new perhaps they aren't up to speed or perhaps just more respectable to say something like "We're not interested in a screw".. Not everyone thinks that way or will say that. Although new to the LS, I think it's not different than interest if you were going out to meet a date when you were single. You'll know when they're interested. The fact that you have no pics on your profile and you state you don't show photo's on yourselves would make me think they had no idea what you guys looked like prior to meeting and just didn't any attraction towards you guys. Personally, we would never make plans to meet without seeing photo's, just to avoid that scenario. Just keep on moving on, plenty more where they came from
  7. I'm hoping I can hear some stories, experiences from the younger crowd as well. We're late 20's early 30's and I must say, I think the younger crowd may differ from the older crowd. Than again it may not, but after doing some searching on this site and reading, I've found many people actually do sexting, however, they didn't mention their age or circumstances ie; new partners vs friends.
  8. Hey Guys, The wife and myself are ready to dive in head first and fast into swinging. We're both very secure, sexual and feel this is long overdue, you have no idea, Well you probably do. Anyways, we had some questions about swinging in general and what is expected. 1. When exchanging numbers, is it proper to give out both of our numbers? Sexting with the other couple's opposite appropriate prior to meeting? 2. When out on our first date, should we flirt with the other couple half? ie; myself flirt with couples wife while my wife flirts with husband. Is it pretty much just like a normal date? i.e. start kissing while dancing etc etc. or is this some sort of permission based thing? Obviously permission based takes away from the lust and in the moment...I would never ask to kiss a female if I was out on a single date, would just do it, but thinking maybe different circumstances when there is a husband around. 3. Sexting with the other couples opposite appropriate or not after a play date leading up to another? or is it more of a thing where the men make the plans and only communicate with each other. I could see some guys being insecure and would have an issue with this, but figured I would ask what the standard is. 4. Do you find most couples that do full swap are one and done types? i.e. just there to meet and fuck as many couples as possible rarely seeing the same couple twice? 5. We've read a lot about people being flakes. Is this more common than not? We obviously don't want to waste our time dealing with people that cancel, no show or say they will call us to break the ice (an to voice verify) and than just vanish. We're hoping to not chase people around, we have a profile on sls and hoping to find people are more mature about finding sexual couples that don't think act like their still in college and play the phone game. What's the general experience here? if there is one? I think that's it for now...Thanks a bunch you sexy people
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