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FunGuy915

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About FunGuy915

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  • Birthday 11/18/1981

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  1. Well, it looks like I've managed to offend a large percentage of the users on this website. Since being in the lifestyle, I have tried to be a model example of a single male. I am polite and well-groomed, I get to know both husbands and wives at parties, I ask for consent, and all those other things that I have to do as a result of being privileged to be part of the lifestyle. And the benefits of doing those things have been amazing. All that being said, I am sorry for whatever offense I have given to others by my earlier post. In response to one suggestion above, I do suspect that this was more of a nudist resort that the owners are trying to turn into a lifestyle resort, with mixed success. That being said, I shouldn't be arrogant or approach parties with a sense of entitlement, whether because of the size of my endowment or for any other reason. This is a great forum, and I appreciate everything that I learn from it.
  2. I'm enjoying the insights in this thread. Couples did not appear to be playing privately. Husbands and wives arrived together and left together. No moaning to be heard around the campsites. Very different from what I've seen at this type of club in the past.
  3. That was not the right way for me to refer to the married people having sex. Sorry to have offended you.
  4. That's very good advice. And I do try to approach the parties without assuming I'll have any success. But still- almost 100 attendees and no swinging? What do you think was going on?
  5. I was excited to check out a new club this weekend. It looked promising on SLS, and it had a great set up: a clubhouse and clothing-optional campground on a large, private piece of land. The party started normally with lots of drinking and dancing. Normally I am able to have sex with four or five women per night at these parties. (I'm a well-hung, in shape young guy. Not to brag, lol.). But when I invited various women to play, I got nowhere. One woman's husband angrily told me not to talk to his wife. The play area was basically deserted, even though there were almost 100 party goers. Two married couples came through (and not with each other, just two instances of plain old married people sex). And this was Halloween! Anyway, the party was fun, but it was a big disappointment to travel all the way to the club, pay the entrance fee, and find out that the people weren't even playing. Anyone else ever experienced anything like this?
  6. One of the best things about the lifestyle is that the rules are so clearly spelled out. You don't have to worry about offending people by asking for what you really want. I escalate things at parties along a fairly standard path. First I say hello to a woman or couple and, if they are sitting down and look friendly, ask if I can sit down. I hang out with them for a while and, if everyone is having a good time, I ask the woman to dance. Then, if she seems into it, I try to kiss her on the dance floor. Some women turn their heads away, and that's totally fine. I don't want any affection from a woman who doesn't freely want to give it to me. Others will try to devour me like they haven't had sex for a year. Still others fall in the middle, making out but doing so tentatively. Then, I generally escalate further by trying to touch the woman's breasts, of course always stopping if I get any sense that she doesn't want me to proceed. (She almost always wants me to proceed.) Then, I will try to rub the woman's pussy, again subject to her wishes. It may take a few songs to get to this point. Anyway, by this point, it is decision time and I will ask the woman if she wants to go back to my room (I usually go to hotel parties, which makes things vastly easier). Sometimes she does, sometimes she doesn't, but everything is crystal clear either way.
  7. From SLS, it appears that Knoxville has a ton of lifestyle clubs for a city of its size. Looks like there are 6 or 8 in the surrounding area, whereas cities of a similar size might have just a couple. Does anyone know where all these clubs came from or why there would be so many in a small-midsized city? Anyone have any experience swinging at any of them? I am thinking about going to grad school there, so any information is helpful.
  8. I really appreciate all the advice in this thread. You are all a great resource.
  9. Thanks, bro. That sounds like good advice.
  10. Sorry for the confusion, I should have been more clear. I appreciate your thoughts on this. It is fascinating to get the opinions of others.
  11. Interesting. I don't really use SLS to set up meetings, I meet people at hotel parties, but this would all be applicable to that as well. I don't see anything related to physical appearance on your list except hygiene. I would have thought physical attraction would be more important (not just penis size but facial attractiveness, hair, fitness, height, etc.). Then again, I am not a woman, so I am not in a position to say.
  12. Learning a lot here. So what would you say are steps 1-4? Obviously personal connection is a big one. I also think as a single male that a big part of my task is not to screw up: don't seem weird, don't seem over-eager, don't seem sex-crazed, don't seem dangerous, etc.
  13. I have been blessed with a wonderful gift: a cock that, at full length, reaches about 8.25 inches. (I know, I know. Most guys who claim large penises are really at 6 or even 5 inches. I have measured time and time again, from the point where the base of the shaft meets the pelvic bone, and I am confident in my number.) My question is, how can I let women know what I am packing? Or should I just let the women be pleasantly surprised? I know that posting my measurements on SLS or straight out telling them would not be good because it would seem sketchy. Is there anything else that I can do? It seems like I have an amazing way to attract women, if only I can figure out how to use it. I appreciate any feedback that anyone might have.
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