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SabrosaGatito

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About SabrosaGatito

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 10/24/1965

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Atlanta
  • Interests
    weight lifting, fishing
  • Swinging Experience
    Still Virgins
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. I can't imagine ever thinking of her as a hot nasty slut. More of a beautiful woman enjoying herself in a very sexy moment and sharing that moment with me. I feel so fortunate to have a woman in my life that is open to not only hearing my fantasy but also having the desire to make it come true for me. She started out with an "I'll do this for you" attitude. Now that we've had several conversations about how this might play out she's equally as excited for the pleasure she will experience. That's one thing our 3rd mentioned after I expressed my reservations. He said I need to be sure that I am doing this for ME and that she is doing this for HER. In other words if she's doing this for my enjoyment or if I'm doing this for her enjoyment then there is too much risk. He said he would feel terrible if this hurt us as a couple and that in his experience if couples aren't enjoying the moment for themselves it often leads to trouble. At that point we knew that if we do this, we're doing this with him.
  2. Thanks for all of the advice. Maybe I'm over concerned at my backing out. Honestly I wanted to just put down the thoughts and try to move on. Problem is the desires aren't so easy to put away. We talk about it a good bit in non-sexual situations as well as while having sex. Now that we've met a man that she is comfortable with and attracted to it makes for some fun talks at playtime. We both get really worked up over it. I guess I'm not sure what my reservations are at this point.
  3. I had been discussing my fantasy of an MFM with my girlfriend for a while. She's always been open to discussions even though she first had a lot of reservations. After several steamy sexting sessions and dirty pillow talk she finally came around to having fun with the idea. We went online and after filtering through dozens of guys I finally met someone for a coffee. We got along great, he seemed a perfect fit for both of our desires. This first meeting was just between me and the guy we found online. We set a date for him to meet the my girlfriend for drinks at a bar across town that sits on top of an upscale hotel. We all got along great, my girlfriend seemed to be having a good time but a little nervous about his advances. He was very polite, respectful and fun though. He talked to both of us and reassured us of his respect for our relationship and his role. After a few drinks and few hours of good conversation we came to a point where we wanted to either grab a room and have some fun or head home. He gave us a moment to discuss it and when hearing my girlfriend say she thought we should find a private place to continue our night I kinda felt some reservations and chickened out. I'm trying not to regret my decision and my girlfriend also feels no regret. That said I'm still spending a lot of time thinking about seeing these two together, often bringing it up while we're having fun or during heated texting. Is it that uncommon to freak out during a first "date"? Does this mean it's just not for us/me? Should I just try to move on and stop watering this seed of desire or meet with him again, this time with both my girlfriend and I knowing we intend to have a few drinks then let the fun begin. Note that even after we all decided to hit the brakes due to my reservations we still had some great conversation and all left in good spirits and open to meeting again.
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