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NCCplForYou

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About NCCplForYou

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 03/19/1970

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    Married Couple
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    Kernersville
  • Occupation
    Retired
  • Swinging Experience
    Less than a year
  • Anniversary
    10/18/2014

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    NCCplForYou

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  1. We have not been swinging for many months now because of these issues. So that's not even in the equation. I was just saying that we HAD in the past. Thanks to all of you for your input. I've learned a lot and it's opened my eyes. Maybe I'm worrying more than I should. I owe you all. John
  2. Nonsexywife posted a similar problem that my wife and I have. The only difference is that she posted about her instead of me posting about us. I'm the husband posting. My wife and I have played with others off and on for about 2 years now. My wife is beautiful, curvy and when we first started dating, sex was an every night thing. We married and along with that and mixing two families, divorce problems with my ex, child custody issues with my ex and her work and some health issues, her drive is gone. She knows and has acknowledged that I have a higher drive than she does. There have been times that I questioned what I had done because she just had no desire for us to be intimate having set aside the swinging part. She has suggested on more than two occasions that I find a female to release my frustrations with. I don't really want this. I want my wife. I told her when we started this, I would never cheat on her and we would always play together. I feel as though even though she is giving me permission, it's still cheating. My second concern is this. I worry that IF I were to find another woman to play with that my wife would not want to have sex with me any at all making the situation worse. I have asked her this and her response is "I don't know how I would feel." So can you see my hesitation here? She has been cheated on in past relationships, bad and that is one thing I have never done even with my first wife. It's something I feel very strongly about. When we do have sex, it's mind blowing. She is very orgasmic, loves anal, toys and bedroom talk. She even talks about us finding her a man with a big cock to fill her up while I watch her and it sets her off. It's getting her "started". Hell, she has even offered to lay there and let me get it and get off but I care so much about her that I want her to enjoy it as well and I get upset when she doesn't. I beg to eat her out so I don't understand this. I'm not asking her to do anything kinky or get on top or anything that would tire her out. I don't know what to do. There are times like this week that she's been more open to sex and toys and even let me use a plug in her ass and said "I need my ass fucked more often". which I immediately replied, "well, I can help you with that" but last night I was on my own with her playing with my nipples. Any suggestions?
  3. I don't remember if I've posted on THIS question or not but my wife LOVES it. She doesn't want it all the time but about 2 times a month is good for both of us. I too, love making her come hard and boy does she ever. We have talked about having a DP and she's all for it, just things going on hasn't allowed time for it but pillow talk is awesome. Just the night before last we were trying fisting again and when that didn't work, she told me since I had a glove on and lubed up, I could play with her ass. So 2 fingers in and she was on a rocket. Then, after she came, I told her I was fucking her ass and she said "go ahead, it's yours. Fuck it hard." After about 30 seconds, I was D O N E! LOL. Spraying hot cum all over her pussy. She loves it best when she's on her hands and knees and enter her from behind.
  4. Odd man out here. I've tried to get my wife to pee on my dick in the shower but it was so quick, it took me longer to get down in the tub and her stand over me than it did for her to pee. However, I love the taste of her pussy and a little pee. I guess it's her chemistry. The smell and taste is not off putting at all and in fact, drives me crazy. She's tried to pee while I've been eating her but can't so I have asked her to not wipe after she pee's if we're having sex that night. Call me crazy, it's just something the drives me nuts. Now, if it were someone else, I don't think I could do it.
  5. I'm remarried and my wife loves it. She told me that she tried it many years ago with her bf and found that she loved it. She doesn't want it all the time and I understand the "why" but I get it as often as I want it. She comes the hardest I have ever seen a woman come. She is multi-orgasmic to begin with but when we do anal, she gets off 3-5 times in about 10 minutes. Especially if I have her on all 4's and fucking her from behind/above. She comes unglued. A lot of times, we start off with missionary vaginal sex but she loves it when I run the head of my dick across her ass hole. Most of the time, she says "push harder" and I know she wants it. Sometimes, she will come way before me and if she's done, I either have to finish really quick or pull out, clean up and finish vaginally inside her.
  6. So I am 44. I have always considered myself straight although I do not have an issue with those men who are gay or bi-sexual. My second wife and I are in the lifestyle. She was bi-curious until our first play date with some friends when she was able to experience and play with another woman. She loves me and loves dick, no doubt about it but she also wants to play more with the ladies and gain more experience. I think it's hot as hell to have a bi wife as well. We have played with toys between ourselves. I love having my plug in my ass and pumped until I can't take any more. We even bought our first strap-on and she gave it to me hard. It was awesome. During sex, we talk dirty to each other. VERY dirty. I tell her what a slut she is and she tells me how she's going to fuck any number of guys I bring home for her and how she wants multiple loads from each guy inside her pussy and ass. I have expressed how I'm looking forward to having her fuck me again with the strap-on. The other night, we were going at it hot and heavy and she told me she wanted to find a guy that would fuck both of us along with his wife/girlfriend. She was saying "I'm going to have him fuck me until he gets ready to cum then make him put it in your ass so you can feel what it's like to have a load of cum in your ass." "I'm going to tell him to fuck you hard and deep." All of this talk set me off. I started talking along with her. Agreeing to be fucked while I fucked her or eat her pussy while his wife sucked on her giant tits and kissed her deeply. I think it was the hardest I have every came. So, the question. I know this puts me in the category of being "bi-curious". Here's the problem. I am NOT gay. I love pussy. I love eating it, fucking it, fisting it. I can't get enough of it when I'm eating it. I give her many orgasms before she just can't take any more. But where do I go from here? What other questions do I need to ask myself if I want to "try" another man. I can't visualize myself sucking dick. Taking it in the ass? Possibly. Sucking dick? NO. Has anyone else ever been in this position that can tell me what you did, questions you asked yourself, something?
  7. My wife and I were just talking about this today. She is a CMA and does these tests every day. I had read, I thought on here, that some couples require a "certificate" or a "recent test result within a week" from their doctor but what she told me is just what others have said on this forum. Plus, a doctor is not going to "guarantee" someone isn't FREE and CLEAR of any STD. Guess that and then reading this just now answered my questions. Guess we'll wait and play with the one or two couples we trust. Thanks everyone.
  8. Not really new to it. I have played a little with my first wife but now I'm remarried to wonderful, sexy lady who has the same fantasies I do. We've both played some and had a blast. I had an account on here under JustNTerested but that's way gone now so I made a new one to include the two of us.
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