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hazeleyesx3

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  • Birthday 02/04/1972

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  • Relationship Status
    couple
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    Maryland
  • Swinging Experience
    not long
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  1. Ha ha. Thanks for that. Luckily my nails are short!!!
  2. Thank you to both. We are going to try it this weekend. I have watched a couple of videos and have read numerous articles. The good thing is they all basically say the same thing. That's a relief. All did emphasize the need for good lubrication. May I ask why a silicone lube is better?
  3. It's probably been asked and hidden in the archives. It's just easier to ask. Found out my partner would like it but he's never told me until the other day. I'm not even sure where to begin. I've started preliminary research online but there's a lot to sift through. Figured I'd get good advice here too Thanks.
  4. I sent you a private message through this site. We have a lot in common and would like to speak to you privately. This site has been invaluable to me for advice. My SO is not part of this site and I choose to keep this private.
  5. Thank you!!! Flirting is so much fun!! But you are right, this is not the place!! I will say that when my partner and I are at parties, I am not the norm because of my body type. I get called out on it at parties too. I don't mind. It is what it is. I can say that no one ever says, hey look at that short guy over there!!!!
  6. Well, I will add my 2 cents as well. I'm 5'9 and prefer taller men. I like to wear heels and when I do I sometimes reach the 6' range. Now on the flip side, I get passed over because of my height and weight. I am 5'9 at 120lbs.and a very small chest. I am not a curvy girl at all. I'm in great shape and proud of my hard work to maintain my figure. So, to each his (or her) own.
  7. Thanks. I am more for your buck too. I have outfits that can go either way. I do like that pink dress. Way out if my comfort zone, but what the hell, I'd try it. One size fits most?!?!? Is that in real sizes or vanity sizes????
  8. I am new to the site but have posted several questions so far and have received great advice. It is making the LS decisions easier. So my question is clothing. I was a corporate housewife for many years. Very conservative in my appearance. Now that I am divorced and in a relationship again I am beginning to feel sexy again. If you are on SLS you can look us up to see what we look like. I am tall and thin. I have no boobs because of zero body fat. I am in great shape. I have fantastic shoulders and abs. I can say that but believe it only when I see pictures. As a woman, we always see our flaws. I guess since I live in Maryland, close to DC and Baltimore, where are places to shop for sexy clothing but not slutty. I want a corset or bustier but because of being challenged in the chest department. I'm not sure if that is the way to go. I want to be sexy for my partner and any playmates. My partner never offers opinions. Silly man!!!!
  9. We were blocked too and we never even contacted this couple. Another thing that happened to us on SLS is that someone actually accused us of plagiarizing their profile!!! WTF?!?! My partner is a writer if novels and screenplays so he needs no help writing a profile!!!! If you read ours and many others on SLS, they are all a lot alike!!!!
  10. All of the responses are really causing me to think so I appreciate it. Those of you who ask about the PDA issue. He doesn't really do too much with me when we are in public. He is sneaky about it. Like on an elevator he will stand in front of me but have his hands behind his back and stroke my crotch. Or at a restaurant touch me under the table. Things like that I have no issue with at all. It is unseen. It is seductive. That is a turn on. He does bring out a side of me that I have kept hidden I understand that touching is a part of the LS. A touch can do a lot. It's the groping and foddling he does even before the clothes are off. He doesn't do that with me. We have amazing sex but not a lot of seduction. Maybe that's what I'm missing..... Hmmmmmm
  11. To answer the previous questions: 1.Who brought up swinging? He did but it was something I always thought about trying but was never with a person who would have been willing. I have been married twice. Neither one would have agreed to this at all. Very conservative, controlling men. The man I am with now is very laid back. Does not seem to get jealous at all. Or at least say he isn't. 2. What interests me about swinging? HMmmmmm I guess it is the thought of sex with someone new. Someone who may have a different technique or ability. The thrill of being allowed to have sex with someone even though in a committed relationship. For him? I think it is the same thing. He was in a 20 year marriage and felt stifled. He enjoys sex. He is a great lover. I think he wants to experience the freedom of other partners knowing that is is allowed. He also likes to see me enjoying another man and hearing about it. 3.Prior experience? He dabbled with it in college with his wife and after his divorce as a single male. I have never done anything at all. 4.Not assertive with him at all. He asks questions and I answer. He is also very good at reading body language. I am also a submissive female in the bedroom. I like to experiment and will try jkust about anything. I have told him this and he listens but he considers it trying to smother or stifle his fun. It's far from it. I want him to have fun but not at my expense. Respect my boundaries for now.. I only have 2.
  12. Touché on that. I take no offense at all. I've been a sexual person for as long as I can remember. Sex was never really discussed in my house. All that was said was don't do it. Well, lost my viginity at 15 and never looked back. I love sex. The PDA thing though was drilled into us. No kissing, touching, fondling, etcetera. The reason it bothers me is because he knows it does but will not tone it down. I've asked him to but his response has been would you rather I do it behind your back? Obviously that is a "no". It's easy to tone it down though when in public. Why do something that makes your partner uncomfortable. I have no problem knowing he's doing it I just don't want to see it. We are swinging because it's a thrilll, an adventure. Going on a vacation, enjoying the ride but then coming back to each other. I don't need to see it though. He enjoys seeing me another man and that's his prerogative. He likes to hear about it too. I don't need to know anything. As long as he had a good time that's all I need to know. Does that help clarify a bit?
  13. Hello. I am a new member so I am not sure where this topic actually fits. My partner and I are relatively new to swinging. We have been together (not a married couple, but committed) for over a year and jumped right into the LS about 3 months ago. We discussed it before we started and have had positive experiences. My dilemma is that I DO NOT like watching him at all. Even when we meet a couple for drinks and he starts touching her it bothers me. I was raised that PDA are a no no. Sometimes I do think he gets a bit too obvious. I have told him that I don't like it. He can be a little more discrete in public. Usually the male half might be touching me too but not obvious. You know, hand on knee, maybe up the thigh a bit. Hand on the back. Small touches, not pawing at me. Once it comes down to the sex part, it has to be separate rooms for me. I just don't like to watch. In fact, it turns my stomach. Hearing him, hearing her, it's all distracting to me. Sometimes I get louder so I can't hear them. Recently we were with a couple and we ended up in the same room and I had to keep my eyes closed. For now, I just can't watch. Maybe it will change, maybe it won't. From what he says, he has no problem seeing me with another man. Any advice, comments, hard slap to the face is welcome.
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