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NY2CALI

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About NY2CALI

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 04/17/1973

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    California
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx
  1. What really is the difference? We went to my first house party last weekend and had a blast. Last night we went to my first hotel party and I couldn't partake..I was mortified!! But he jumped right in and had 2 different women..is something wrong with me???
  2. Update: last night we attended a hotel party. I didn't enjoy it at all... Why is there a difference with a hotel party and a house party?
  3. Update....last night we went to a house party, my first...better than I expected....once the nerves passed I was on fire...then we fucked like rabbits when we got home, until the sun came up....and again 3 hours later....this morning over breakfast his comment "I don't need solo play....this is what I've been waiting for" As so I welcome myself into the world of swinging!!
  4. Thank you for the useful information...some answers to your very important questions...he and I have been together 3+ years...we met on the very same site back then, but as single members...he had a lot more experience than I.. I was attracted to his sexual confidence..I mostly met single guys...had a few multiple partner situations and attended 1 club...never been to a house party....when we met we both wanted a serious relationship so we got off the site together...over the years we talking about going on as a couple..the excitement swinging would bring (he learned how sexually free I am over the years of being together but thought they were only words)..but I've been the one that's jealous..how can I share something I'm not getting myself??... over time the sex between us has mostly died and we are great "friends"....it was my suggestion that we sign up online again....I think my words were "honey what do we have to lose...we both aren't getting laid"....we both love sex and without it the emotional connection is breaking down at home. I mention again because the summer of 2015 we had met a couple...and shared the experience together...I was thrilled as a calm...I felt sexy for days after...my new confidence was something I hadn't felt it quite some time...he told me it wasn't a woman he would chose but he did it so I could have the experience...he later said "we don't need this site" and we canceled our profiles...I feel in my heart he couldn't see me with another man..but I could be very wrong (but woman's intuition)..well almost one year to the day we were having the same discussion. So I'm thinking as a newbie "can swinging reignite the passion between us"..."will we desire each other again".... And so I see who he sends messages to...women I'm not attracted to...(I enjoy men and women)...not to mention their husbands aren't to my liking either...so we are both getting frustrated...he thinks I'm being too picky but how can I get turned on without the spark? So he wrote 1 email to a single 285 lbs woman and said "maybe she'll let me out so I can play with all of that" and to another couple he wrote he "was ready to play" Hence my post!
  5. Thank you!!! Any recommendations in how I can offer him something else? What do you do if no 4 way match? Do you wait it out or take one for the team? He's into bbw women and that turns me off. I enjoy height weight proportion people. I don't want to stand and watch. I need some loving too!!
  6. My boyfriend and I are on a swing site as a couple. We have only met one couple. He claims he took one for the team. We clearly have different taste in who appeals to us. He has suggested going on seperate hot dates...do I even open this box?
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