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  • Birthday 03/09/1973

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    Atlanta
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    6 years
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  1. Ha! Joaninia, I know the feeling. I finally put a guys cock in my mouth the second time we hooked up with a couple. First time was handjobs only. Sucking a cock isn't as bad as I though it would be, although the first time was awkward. The following time the flow was much easier because I wasn't hung up on it. I even let him cum in my mouth. I've come a long way in a month! LOL
  2. Great point love2playwithu69. That was the conclusion I came through discussing this with my wife. After we had our handjob experience both us guys were comfortable enough with ourselves to laugh at it. He and I indirectly said we'd be open to exploring more in a "let's just see where it leads" manner. The next time the couple came over we did our usual wife swapping on our bed and our wives began kissing each other, which eventually lead to them two in a 69. The husband and I looked glanced at each other and shrugged and then went down on me. I returned the favor, but I had to admit, having a penis in my mouth was an odd experience. Not bad, just odd. We ended up in 69 for a while and my wife was loving it. After we were done I didn't give it any more thought. I don't feel that I'm a bisexual now. I just feel like I had a bisexual experience. And the "taboo" (for lack of a better word) part of it was a huge turn on for me. I don't know if it will go any further than blow jobs now, but I didn't think it would ever get this far to begin with...so you never know. I'll let y'all know it it does.
  3. LOL. "Scat play." I had a long discussion with my wife earlier today and she came to the conclusion that she didn't feel forced at all, but that my comments about how women do it all the time and what a big fantasy it is for men is the reason she decided to give it a try. That was manipulative on my part, although I didn't see it at the time. However, she said she enjoyed expanding her sexual boundaries and encouraged me to do the same and that sex with another woman was simply sexual fun. We had a date night tonight with another couple that I feel very comfortable with sexually. Before we started anything sexual we had a discussion with the couple about my wife's fantasy. They didn't even flinch as my wife described what she wanted to see. Both of them were open to the idea, which made me a little more at ease. We had a lot of fun, but as far as he and I got was mutual hand jobs. It wasn't all that bad and after we came we just laughed. We are going over to their place tomorrow. I'm a little more OK with taking it a little further. Stay tuned...
  4. Thanks JustAskJulie. You're absolutely right. I'm trying to think back at our conversations to see if I indeed indirectly coerced her into doing it. I definitely didn't do it intentionally, but I know phrases like "it's every guy's fantasy" and "women do it all the time" may have been manipulative. I'll have to find out from her if she felt that way. I'll keep you posted. And thanks again to all of you that have chimed in. I welcome more input so please keep them coming.
  5. LOL! Thanks ViSexual. Great point! Yes I have had sex with a few women I wouldn't normally have sex with. What can I say? Men are dogs. :-) But I hear you. Thinking about it that way puts a different spin on things in my own head.
  6. Great point sunbuckus. I'll have to discuss it more with her if she felt any prodding for me. Of course I was excited about it but I really can't remember pressuring her to do anything. She did mention wanting to be open with her sexuality so I'm thinking being with another woman falls into that category. I've realized today that one of my concerns about having sexual interaction with another man (whatever that may be) is how I would feel about myself afterwards. Will that change who I am? Would that make me bi or something? I don't know. My wife and I are going to talk about this some more this evening. I'll keep you all posted.
  7. Thanks again junglecouple and 81lizard69. I'm feeling more and more at ease about the conversation with our friends this weekend.
  8. Thanks man. I'm not sure if it'll ever happen. I don't have anything against bisexuals or gays, but It has never been my thing. We'd definitely have to discuss it with the other couples and see how they feel about it. I told my wife that I'm open to discussing it. Baby steps I guess. We're having one of the couples over this weekend and my wife said she'll bring it up.
  9. Hi Everyone, My wife and I are fairly new to the swinging lifestyle. We had talked about if for a couple of years before actually trying it a little over a year ago. We thoroughly enjoy it now. We've had fun fulfilling each other's fantasies (one of which was seeing my wife with another woman - every guy's fantasy!). Recently she brought up a new fantasy of hers that I wasn't all that comfortable with. Simply put, she wants to see me have sex with the man. I've never been interested in men and I've explained that to her. She tells me she'd never been interested in women either, but did it to fulfill my fantasy. Now I'm kind of stuck between a rock and a hard place. We have a few good looking couples that we hook up with from time to time and out of fairness to my wife I've tried to imagine what it would be like going from his wife to him and I just can't see it happening. What should I do? Have any of you other guys out there gotten that request from your wife? Or even tried it? I really enjoy swinging and don't want this to be what ends it. Do I need to just take the plunge and try it? On one hand I have to consider fairness to my wife. On the other hand this is uncharted territory. In the few conversations we've had about it my answer has been "no way." But now I'm asking myself, "would it really be such a bad thing?" Any advice from experienced swingers would be very welcome.
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