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  1. Thanks for the insightful replies. Feels weird being a swinger virgin. Need that to end.
  2. What I mean by that? How long does your usual couple play session last and what usually happens during? Here are the stupid questions: -Do the girls start kissing and playing while the guys watch? -Do we all get undressed right away? -How will I know when it's the guys time to jump in with the women? -As a woman, what do you expect from the man in terms of how long you should last? If she's already cum orally, then do you guys just do your thing? Do you ask her if you should cum? Do you try to get her to cum again with you? -Finally, how long does your usual play session last? We have had a date and have a couple of more coming up. Hoping we hit it off soon and get to that room.
  3. This is the kind of stuff I think I'm looking for. I'm going to try this while keeping pressure towards the top (clit).
  4. OP here. Great advice. So the way my lady and I do it now (90% of the time) is she rubs my penis on her clit to cum, then I do my thing however I want to. She's happy with that and I believe it. Some of her O's are pretty long (15 seconds). Now if I could switch this around to swinging. Haven't had our first experience yet. What are the ladies out there expecting for orgasm? I'd like to prepare myself and I'll do anything to make it happen. My wife doesn't care about her orgasm. She says it's more about the excitement of it all and she's prepared to do whatever it takes to orgasm but it's not going to be disappointing if it doesn't happen. She's actually hoping the other lady makes her cum first Then she can hop over to the guy and get crazy. Just want to add this...wife says she almost always pictures or thinks about a woman when she is trying to cum. I'm ok with this!
  5. What's the trick to making a woman cum while having sex in the missionary position and from behind? Seriously, she (my wife of 22 years) just can't do it most of the time (I'd say 99%). When we were younger she came pretty good by being on top of me, wrapping her legs around mine, pressing hard, and going fast. When I'm on top of her missionary style, she just can't do it. Doesn't even seem to be close. She will not tell me what I can do different even though I ask (I honestly believe that she doesn't know what I should do). Is there an angle I need to try? Is it more about the pressure I can exert while doing it? How about tips with going from behind? I've never been able to get her to cum that way. I'm also afraid I won't be able to satisfy another woman that way while swinging because I can't do it with my wife? Help me! Some facts: 7" long, 6" girth. Seems like I have the tools?
  6. This has always been a curious topic for me. Why are people more concerned about getting an std through their penis/vagina contact than they are with their mouth? Isn't it all the same? Educate me please
  7. We talked through email and text beforehand quite a bit about many different things. Tried conversations but it was hard to get a hold of each other. I thought he was fine beforehand but during the evening he only really listened to himself talk. When anyone else was talking he'd be looking off somewhere else. A couple of times he got up from the table and went and did something like examine the heat lamps. What turned my wife off was him flirting with the waitress when his wife was in the bathroom. "If you get off at 10 does that make you a ten?" What the hell is that? LOL.
  8. We are new swingers. Met another couple through SLS and planned a date for last week. So I guess I need some help. When they walked in to the bar and saw us I felt a little bit like he wasn't impressed with me (I'm the guy). Throughout the evening the other guy barely looked or spoke to me. For me that's a big turnoff. You want my wife, then you'll have to impress both of us. Help me out, is it wrong to think/want this? He seemed super cocky. Secondly, and I hope unrelated to this, we sat as couples across from each other. For me to talk to the other wife, I'd have to have a cross conversation. I wanted to ask the husband if we could swap spots so I could get to know his wife while sitting next to her. A little more intimate. By the way, I had a little bit of the jitters attempting to flirt with another woman while my wife was sitting next to me. I have since figured that out after talking to her afterwards. I should have seen that coming. Our next date will be much better from my end I hope.
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