My husband and I are in our 50's to early 60's and are very interested in becoming active members of the lifestyle. Yet everywhere we search for information, clubs, parties, etc. the age group that seems to be wanted is in the 20's-30's. Where does an actual "mature" couple go to find other "mature" couples. Just because we are older does not mean that we are not interested in sex, quite the contrary. We are very sexually active and very experienced. Any suggestions?