My hubs and I have been flirting with the lifestyle for a while now. I'm much more ready to jump in than him, so we are waiting until both are on board the bus. I know part of his hesitation is that he is insecure in a few areas including penis size. He is not very big but has always been able to get the job done. So I guess my question is how important is penis size for women in the lifestyle? Do any of you simply brush someone off if they aren't well hung? I would hate for this experience to turn into something negative. Thanks for any advice you can give.