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Cancuple-he last won the day on September 4 2013

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About Cancuple-he

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  • Birthday 09/16/1964

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple, Hubby to Cancuple-she
  • Location
    Ontario, Canada
  • Interests
    First and foremost: pleasuring my wife!, then; Cycling, kayaking, boating, fine dining, patio bars, dancing
  • Occupation
    He: Retail Executive, She: Sexy Bartender
  • Swinging Experience
    On and off for 3 years
  • Anniversary
    03/27/1993

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    X-Club

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  1. Same here... Wife has one- lower back... (sometimes called a "tramp stamp")... not an issue for me.
  2. LMAO! This thread actually made me laugh a little... Mrs. CC is a bartender, and a sexy as hell one at that, and she deals with guys hitting on her, on a daily basis. The ring thing, that previous posters have mentioned really bares no relevance since she has two hands full of them... That said, most of her clientèle are drunk losers who go there to drink and escape their insignificant and boring lives... so not much for me to worry about in that respect, what-so-ever. In the end, Mrs. CC has a novel approach to dealing with "would be" suitors... her usual retort when faced with some unwanted attention is she'll flash her hands at the assailant and say something like, "you have some fairly large boots to fill from the man that gave me these", or something to that effect... but my favorite story is when her "tramp stamp" tattoo accidentally flashed, (it's not easily legible...), and one guy who thought rather highly of himself said, "what does your tatt say honey?" She just turned to him and said: "Happily married!" On the flip side, she's also had some women hit on her as well!
  3. OK, I gave this some thought... Both have their points, but as a straight male, I'm leaning toward FMF especially if the F's are also interactive! More possibilities for pleasure that way, because each of us can interact with the other 2. I have no desire (at this point), to interact with another male, so in that respect, it limits the options. Having said that, I don't mind MFM as a special treat for Mrs. Cancuple!
  4. Sexting is a regular part of our daily communication. I LOVE IT! We have it down to an art form... its like pre-emptive foreplay for us!
  5. By the looks of the poll, (err, pole?), it seems as if the OP only takes length into consideration. But I thought the more desirable measurement was girth?
  6. Not with my wife... no, why bother. But I did once with an LS hookup. You may ask yourself, how does a guy fake an orgasm? Easy, I was wearing a condom. I was on my 3rd or 4th SOG and she had already had several, and I sensed she was "done", so I faked it to spare her any anxiety.
  7. My biggest: "If they only knew" moments usually arise when "the guys" are all talking about how attractive they find Mrs. Cancuple, and how I'm such a lucky guy... Then of course there's the common male fantasy of having a 3-some... and all I can do is bite my tongue!
  8. Everyone should have a secret "toy" chest! (Ours is an old suitcase at the back of the walk in closet... )
  9. Hmmm, I think I would do pretty much anything to satisfy Mrs. Cancuple's sexual desires. (The rewards are far reaching and returned on an exponential level! )
  10. Mrs. Cancuple makes all the decisions. It is what it is... And I'm perfectly OK with that!
  11. Passionate kissing is a must. I don't think we could play without it!
  12. I'm V-safe, and have been for 18 yrs, and although I hate condoms, I understand that they are a necessary "evil" in this LS, so... I never thought of myself as large, but I always found other condoms to be very uncomfortable, so...
  13. When my wife has been riding my and grinding me for awhile, getting her juices all over me, and then suddenly lifting off to give me a BJ so she can lick off all her deliciousness!
  14. Mrs. Cancuple and I were together for almost 20 years before our journey into the LS started. It was a gradual thing... It started one day when she mused allowed, what the big deal was with a strip joint. So we went to one. She seemed to really enjoy it! Especially all the attention she got from the dancers as well as the other guys! LoL She then expressed interest in watching the occasional porn movie together, and she was intrigued by the girl on girl scenes, so I started joking around that she was free to have an affair, as long as her partner was a woman. It progressed from there... we found ourselves collecting DVD's and visiting our favourite strip club in Niagara Falls, Ontario, and she even convinced me to take her to a male strip joint as well. Then one day, she was helping a GF pack for an upcoming move, and they each had a glass of wine, and they started messing around a bit. They both started texting me, and sending me pics, and of course I encouraged it willingly! Shortly thereafter I took her to a strip joint and got her some lap dances. She was genuinely intrigued, so we had to take it to the next level... We joined a swinger forum, and found a couple to play with, but they weren't right. They were very nice people, but were more into the full swap, and we weren't ready for that yet. So we coasted for awhile. The real break through came when we went to Temptations in Fall 2010.
  15. Seriously though, (from what you describe), the problem seems to be psychological, so why not even the score a bit. At one point this happened to me as well... a mutual LS friend suggested a half a blue pill, and voila. Problem solved! Under regular circumstances he does not need an "enhancement", but anxiety prevents him from getting hard, so a lil pick me up doesn't seem like a bad thing. (Unless there a medical reason for not using it of course...) Just my nickel's worth.
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