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AngelandTiger

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AngelandTiger last won the day on August 25 2016

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About AngelandTiger

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    DivineandFeline
  • Birthday 10/17/1957

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    Couple
  • Location
    United States
  • Interests
    Martial arts, dancing, dining out, music, flying, portraiture, lifestyle camping, kayaking, dancing, dancing, dancing.
  • Swinging Experience
    7 Years
  • Anniversary
    xx/xx/xxxx

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    AngelandTiger
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    AngelandTiger
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    AngelandTiger
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Northaven Resort, Two Creeks Campground

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  1. I think most people use the term to mean that they "reclaim" their woman after another man (or woman) has had sex with her. I agree, I don't understand it, and neither does my wife. She's adamantly AGAINST "reclamation" sex; after a great party or meetup, she's too tired to even THINK of wanting sex for at least a couple of days. I feel no need to "reclaim" something I never lost. And many, MANY people use condoms, so there is no cum to "extract" and "replace". Just my $0.02
  2. I was looking to find someone who would bring this up...otherwise I would have. Not only is everything people have said about STD and deceit true, but this is so incredibly unfair to the guys she's fucking..... Just WOW.
  3. It seems there's a lot of folks that enjoy the retelling on the ride home and then erotic, passionate sex (sometimes termed "reclamation") upon arrival. It seems like we're in the minority of couples in that respect. We enjoy both MFM and MFMF or other alphabet salad variations very much, and we ALWAYS play together. For one thing, part of the thrill for me is watching Angel with another male....tremendously so, for that matter. The other thing is that when Angel is aroused, she literally (using the word with it's proper meaning) loses all sense of the situation unfolding and the world around her....she's completely unaware of anything except her sexual pleasure. She wants me there to be sure that in that state, she doesn't do anything she wouldn't want to do otherwise. While on the way home I'll sometimes recount the evening to her (the only way she knows what actually happened), but most of the time she's so drowsy and relaxed that she falls asleep during the story, and the recounting happens a day or so later. Once home, there is almost always virtually no chance of any sex occurring given that scenario...LOL. The few times that she's been completely awake when we get home, she's pretty done with sex for a couple of days at least...in her mind we've had enough sex for me (us) to be satisfied for a while. I'm not sure I've heard of too many couples who roll like this; anyone else out there roll similarly? Sure, I'd love to come home and hit it again with my babe, but it is what it is. T
  4. This is it for me too. That high is INCREDIBLE, and it is, exactly, a jealousy buzz. T
  5. ". I love watching another man penetrate deep inside my wife, hearing her sounds, watching her movements, and loving it to the fullest. " CO-SIGN! TOTALLY turns me on maximally. T PS: I don't know why either.
  6. Great answers folks! Appreciate all the responses and all the thought that went into them! Keep em' coming! T
  7. This, unfortunately, reminds me of the guys who, after or during our first meetups, have made sure that I knew that they were going to make Angel feel something she's never felt before, be the best she's ever had, show her what she's been missing...etc. One even asked me, "Do you want me to go easy, or do you want me to show her what she's missing? Good grief. Those meetings ended abruptly (understated, but there you are). The lifestyle is for making friends who can share the sexual part of their personalities as well as their more forward facing personas. It's not for "rutting sessions", or bragging rights on who has the biggest cock or who can best satisfy someone else. These people need to grow up or get out of the lifestyle. This is simply pathetic. T
  8. Hi all, We've been in the lifestyle for over 10 years now, and as much as I LOVE to watch my wife fucking someone, I've always felt pretty awkward during the initial arrival at his home, or his initial arrival in ours. Specifically, we come to the door, walk in, exchange pleasantries, and then my wife and he often exchange a very long and sexual kiss...etc. This isn't with one specific guy, it's just how things roll. Once we move to the living room with drinks,and it's time for play to begin, my wife will often begin by kissing the guy, then slowly undoing his pants and sucking, caressing and licking his cock. Things tend to progress, he undresses her fully or partially, and we move to the bedroom. I enjoy watching, but during the time they are "getting acquainted" in the living room, and the first moments in the bedroom, I often feel like a "third wheel" for a bit, and am self-conscious about just standing (or sitting) there and "gawking" (my term, I'm not really leering at them in a creepy way.....LOL). Once in the bedroom, I never know when the best moment to join them is; I want to give her some time to enjoy him, but I don't want to be left out of the festivities either.... I've handled this in different ways over the years, but it still tends to give me a bit of a pause as they go at it passionately, which I LOVE to see because it is such an incredible turnon-mix of love, envy, jealousy and sexual excitement. So, how do the other experienced males and females (ladies opinions are especially welcome) deal with the "beginnings" of a play date? How does it make you feel? We love any form of play date, be it MFM, FMF,MFMF or even more. The lifestyle has brought us together in ways that would have been impossible otherwise. Thanks for your help, opinions, advice....perhaps others are wondering the same? T
  9. We don't fear anything about feelings of friendship, caring and genuine sexual attraction. I'm talking about romantic feelings. One of the best things about the LS is that it intensifies the bond and "teamwork" that we both share. Romantic feelings for one outside our marriage would disrupt that, and in our experience, virtually always lead to relationship strife and drama, unless, that is, a poly relationship is what you're looking for. To each his own, but we reserve romantic feelings for each other. T
  10. My take. Being a member of the LGBTQ+ community is not a choice. Swinging most certainly is. That said, within the swinger community, there are many members of the LGBTQ+ community. In the Venn diagram of the two communities, there is quite a bit of overlap, and the intersection of the Swinger and LGBTQ+ communities is where they (we) fall. However, to use the (minimal) legal protections currently offered to the LGBTQ+ community to defend a morals dismissal for lifestyle activities fails on the merits, it seems to me, as the lifestyle community is not a recognized protected group. That said, it matters little anyway. Many states, such as ours, are Right-to-Work states, and codified in the RTW legislation (at least for our state) is the right for an employer to terminate your employment for any reason that does not violate your constitutional rights, or for NO REASON WHATSOEVER. You are not owed a reason, and one need not be given. As such, in this state, if your employer feels that they need to terminate your employment for a violation of their morality terms, they have full right to do so, and one has no legal recourse. T
  11. I'd want to be there, because that's part of the package for us. Angel enjoys it all, but she's not comfortable, and doesn't feel safe, without me there, and I love to watch her with a man. Under no circumstances do we "make love" to anyone but each other, and if it appears that one of us is doing so (which hasn't happened in over 10 years of swinging), we both agree that we would end the evening and the relationship with the other couple/man/woman, lest feelings develop. T
  12. He knew you were married with a family. He kissed you, and sucked your breasts anyway. You resisted. He didn't take no for an answer. Even a slapped face did not dissuade him. That's not "naughty". That's sexual assault. He's a cheater (with you), and he will cheat ON you. The question as to whether to stay with a man who cheats (not a lifestyle action by any means) and commits sexual assault should be obvious. Sorry for the dose of reality. I'm not usually this direct. However, this is a situation with more red-flags than a construction zone. T
  13. Hi folks, This sounds like an impending trainwreck, as GoldCoCouple stated earlier. Having been in the LS for a long while now, I see the signs of a couple who are almost deliberately not heeding warning signs, and too easily brushing aside real issues. I have a couple of things to mention. First of all, if this date actually happens, USE CONDOMS NO MATTER WHAT YOUR STI REPORT. Keep in mind that a clean STI report is valid at the time the tests are RUN, and essentially void immediately afterward. If you are in the "silent" window in the period soon after infection with a number of viral diseases, you ARE still contagious. Additionally, you cannot be certain of the level of risk that the other couple has taken, even if they tell you this is their first time swinging. Second, stop for a second, close your eyes, and imagine your wife being penetrated by him. Imagine her reacting to him with MUCH greater intensity than she reacts to you, making noises she NEVER, EVER makes with you, begging him to fuck her deeper. Imagine her orgasming over and over in a way she never does with you. Imagine him making her cum hard doing things that, when you do them, she isn't all that thrilled. Imagine her letting him do things with her that SHE WON'T LET YOU DO. Many, MANY women do all of the above with a new partner, it's normal and it's part of what I love about watching my wife. However, what would the aftermath of a night like this be for you as a couple? What if YOUR experience isn't all that great compared to hers (or at least what if you perceive it to be)? What if they're still going strong long after you're done and wishing you could leave? What if you or she breaks one of your rules (You DO have rules that you've discussed, don't you?). What if she becomes massively upset at the sight of you penetrating another woman? Not trying to be a negative Nellie. I'm concerned. I've met many folks who were in no way ready for the onslaught of strong emotions that caught them TOTALLY off guard in the midst of playing with another couple. You should discuss these things as a couple. I urge you to talk it ALL out, talk more, and then when you're done, TALK SOME MORE. There can't be too much communication between the partners of a couple that swings. Just my $0.02. I hope you'll consider the things I mentioned, and let us know how you did when you talked them over. Best Regards, T
  14. I DO hope we get a report that everything went fine, and you returned with your wife waiting in just the manner you hoped, because in the lifestyle the above statement is a Texas-sized Red Flag.
  15. Being a man with family and "very serious and responsible" confers no immunity to STIs that I am aware of. If he cheated with you, he's cheated with others....others whose STI status may not be stellar. T
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